Ditched on my birthday :(
Ditched on my birthday :(
tommorow's my birthday party and i was looking foreward to going out and just having fun with my friends (and probably drinking a bit), now i just found out that my best friend has decided he's not going to bother coming cause we're not drinking for sure and he wants to get drunk, it's really agitating because i'm kinda my circle of friends counselor, everyone comes to me to talk about there problems and i'm always there for them, esspecially to this certain friend lately, now on my birthday all i wanted to do was hang out and have fun with my friends and now most of them are working and don't feel like coming out and in my best friends case he's just plain blowing me off and acting like it's no big deal.... this is really depressing because i'm spending my birthday alone because even though i care about everyones life no one seems to care about mine
"How can we justify spending so much on destruction and so little on life?" Matthew Good
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
Birthdays suck anyway .. just another ordinary day .. if people even remember my birthday it's a good day.
♥ Joey
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people suck.
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Hmmmm well he just snapped on me cause i asked him whether drinking meant more to him then me as a friend and he said " i just want to fucking drink ok? quit being selfish" ......does anyone find that reply ironic?
"How can we justify spending so much on destruction and so little on life?" Matthew Good
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
Considering it's your birthday .. it's your friend that's being selfish .. I hate how birthdays to some people mean another excuse to drink and get drunk 
♥ Joey
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yeah tell me about it..
my birthday was yesterday.. (April 15) and almost nobody remembered hehe but that's also cuz I don't tell many people about it.. although I am going to see some friends this weekend for it heh but that's still only 2 of my good friends :S
my birthday was yesterday.. (April 15) and almost nobody remembered hehe but that's also cuz I don't tell many people about it.. although I am going to see some friends this weekend for it heh but that's still only 2 of my good friends :S
Joey wrote:Birthdays suck anyway .. just another ordinary day .. if people even remember my birthday it's a good day.
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Still 5 months away until my birthday .. I never mention my birthday to anyone. No point. If people remember, that's cool .. but I don't hint around about it or anything.
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I tell nearly everyone I know about my birthday. Last year only three people remembered. Stephanie (because we went out that night), Bethany, and my friend Bryan. Everyone else just decided to forget.
Don't worry about your friends, especially the ass that just wants to drink. Next time he does something, make a really big deal about showing up, then just don't show up without telling anyone. The next day when he calls to ask why you didn't show up, just say you didn't feel like getting up to go see him.
Don't worry about your friends, especially the ass that just wants to drink. Next time he does something, make a really big deal about showing up, then just don't show up without telling anyone. The next day when he calls to ask why you didn't show up, just say you didn't feel like getting up to go see him.
I faced death. I went in with my arms swinging. But I heard my own breath and had to face that I'm still living. I'm still flesh. I hold on to awful feelings. I'm not dead... My chest still draws breath. I hold it. I'm buoyant. There's no end.
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Re: Ditched on my birthday :(
Clumsyboy wrote: even though i care about everyones life no one seems to care about mine
i understand exactly what you mean by that
Without you I'm as good as
dead ...
ya Happy B-day!
It's unfortunate your friend is acting like this but don't blame the other ones who are working, it's not exaclty their fault... Anyways I wouldn't do what Alan said, two wrongs don't make a right and I doubt your friend would get the idea of what you're trying to get through to him anyways so it wouldn't be worth it. Just keep being a good friend, good things come to good people.
It's unfortunate your friend is acting like this but don't blame the other ones who are working, it's not exaclty their fault... Anyways I wouldn't do what Alan said, two wrongs don't make a right and I doubt your friend would get the idea of what you're trying to get through to him anyways so it wouldn't be worth it. Just keep being a good friend, good things come to good people.
I can't wait until the day schools are over-funded and the military is forced to hold bake sales to buy planes.
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"