If one has a crush on an older person that he or she sees every day, but the object of their affection is unaware of their existence, what should one do?
Should one risk embarrassment, self-hatred, and so forth by saying or doing something, or should he or she just continue to be a painfully shy wallflower? If one is to act on his or her affections, how would you recommend he or she do so?
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sandsleeper
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Take a risk .. you'll never get anywhere if you don't just jump in there sometimes ..
♥ Joey
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yeah
tell her to pick out a cd and when she's going through your collection, stand really close behind her
then when she stands up and turns around and discovers that you are right there, you just kiss her
tell her to pick out a cd and when she's going through your collection, stand really close behind her
then when she stands up and turns around and discovers that you are right there, you just kiss her
we are the brand new beatniks. we are the down and outers.
we are the bleeding hearts, beating syncopated, broken rhythm.
our speed is often break neck. we need to slow it down.
tired of being sleepless. tired of being broken.
we are the bleeding hearts, beating syncopated, broken rhythm.
our speed is often break neck. we need to slow it down.
tired of being sleepless. tired of being broken.
I tend to get along better with guys than I do with girls .. but on a friendship level .. when it comes to dating I'm chicken shit too .. there's this hot guy at work who actually came up to me and made the effort of introducing himself to me but I'm too scared to talk to him 
♥ Joey
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areusad831
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sandsleeper
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Joey wrote:I tend to get along better with guys than I do with girls .. but on a friendship level .. when it comes to dating I'm chicken shit too .. there's this hot guy at work who actually came up to me and made the effort of introducing himself to me but I'm too scared to talk to him
yeah i had that happen to me once too. some hot guy came up and introduced himself when i was on this trip and pennsylvania but i'm a big nerdbag so i just kinda smiled dumbly and was unable to make any conversation.
Lick a finger: feel the now.
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areusad831
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areusad831
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GetTheFeelingNow wrote:Yes, but you are talking to someone completely inept in communicating with the male species. I went to an all-girls school, and I have no idea of how to talk to guys - about ANYTHING, let alone... risky... things,
males...they're easy to talk to. what you/your friend can do is send a person to tell them hey...this chick...she wants you. then after about a day or two of that...you personally walk up and tell them how you feel. it tends to slowly make you feel comfortable about him knowing that you want to secretly rip his clothes off and rape him.
Whenever death may surprise us,
let it be welcome
if our battle cry has reached even one receptive ear
and another hand reaches out to take up our arms.
Nobody's gonna miss me, no tears will fall, no ones gonna weap, when i hit that road.
my boots are broken my brain is sore, fer keepin' up with thier little world, i got a heavy load.
gonna leave 'em all just like before, i'm big city bound, your always 17 in your hometown
let it be welcome
if our battle cry has reached even one receptive ear
and another hand reaches out to take up our arms.
Nobody's gonna miss me, no tears will fall, no ones gonna weap, when i hit that road.
my boots are broken my brain is sore, fer keepin' up with thier little world, i got a heavy load.
gonna leave 'em all just like before, i'm big city bound, your always 17 in your hometown