I need so much help with dating that I'm probably beyond saving, so here goes.
I really wish to know what women need to see in a guy to be attracted:
How important are looks?
How important is a sense of humor?
Do girls like dominant, aggressive males more then that shy/respectful type?
also what's the best way approach a girl without coming off as too obvious:
-Should I be really nice and friendly with a girl I just met?
-Should I try to be funny and entertaining?
-Should I just be passive and simply wait for something to form between us?
Please help

. I know this may sound like I'm just looking for pity, but I feel like I'm going to be alone forever.