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I agree no one should be judged based on their job.

And "crappy job" has a different meaning depending on who you ask. My sister thinks my job is crap because she will never be the kind to work in an office environment. I think her job is crap because I've done it before and it wasn't for me. But we don't judge each other because of where we work.

Hell, I once worked at Taco Bell :lol:
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I don't judge people by where they work. It's just that when I get married I'm sort of hoping that who it will be will at least be able to do their share in supporting us!

Ok. So people, I went to a concert yesterday with my friends and of course he was there. The signals are so mixed and now I just can't stop thinking about it. I can't live without some resolve here. But I also am deathly afraid of some rejection now. I am seriously thinking about just asking him what happened and telling him I am still interested with him. I still want him as a friend like we are now though...and I am afraid that will just totally ruin it. I feel like we have so much chemistry and tension that we can't even have a decent conversation...and like he's holding back for some reason. Man...
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Post by dream in japanese »

Henrietta wrote:I don't judge people by where they work. It's just that when I get married I'm sort of hoping that who it will be will at least be able to do their share in supporting us!


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Post by its4am_isanybodyhome »

so...for reasons i don't want to talk about...doing anything with him is out of the question. anything with him is out of the question.


fuck.
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giddyness gone :(
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mhmm
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I was totally going to do it but the opportunity didn't come around. He was supposed to call me and didn't. So now I don't know if I hate him enough to change my mind and not try.
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i'm seeing a boy who never talks to me
and i think i love him
awkward is the new cool
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^ that was the most alex post ever, i think.
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polyamory, here i come!



ugh.
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Post by happening fish »

Hope wrote:^ that was the most alex post ever, i think.


:wtf: :lol: :happytears:


lora: ^5
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*thinks*

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i don't get it.
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You wouldn't.

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Once you're lost in twillights's blue
You don't find your way, the way finds you...

Tempt the fates, beware the smile
It hides all the teeth, my dear,
What's behind them...

So glad you could stay
Forever

He steps between the trees, a crooked man
There's blood on the blade
Don't take his hand

You warm by the firelight, in twilight's blue
Shadows creep & dance the walls
He's creeping too..

So glad you could stay
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I'm crossing a very important line tomorrow. The crush seeing me in a bathing suit...
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Ikie!
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:lol:
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Just be confident and try not to think about it too much. When you're comfortable in your own skin (or even if you're not and just pretend you are :lol:), that can be even more attractive than if you're 6' tall with a figure like a supermodel (which I hope you don't, Cass, cos ick!! FOOD IS GOOD :lol:).
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I :love: food. I can't live without it.

Er...yeah.

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Henrietta wrote:I'm crossing a very important line tomorrow. The crush seeing me in a bathing suit...


don't cop out. do exactly what i said and you'l be laying him proper at the end of the night,

or whatever it is you do instead of laying proper.
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my boots are broken my brain is sore, fer keepin' up with thier little world, i got a heavy load.
gonna leave 'em all just like before, i'm big city bound, your always 17 in your hometown
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