Love & Relationships Thread

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 12/21/2005, 8:55 pm

Well the two that are applicable to my situation are like that, so they all must obviously be!

Hope · Post by **Hope** » 12/21/2005, 8:56 pm

obviously!

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 12/21/2005, 8:57 pm

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/21/2005, 10:05 pm

I'm sorry Yannic that sucks.

*hugs*

dream in japanese · Post by **dream in japanese** » 12/21/2005, 10:27 pm

word of advice: if you don't want to fool around with a boy...DON'T SLEEP IN HIS BED :roll:

i need to stop doing that :lol:

beautiful liar · Post by **beautiful liar** » 12/21/2005, 10:33 pm

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/21/2005, 10:54 pm

Dammit Maria!!!! Next time you even wanna think about fooling around with him, imagine my face! That oughta fix ya.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 12/21/2005, 11:14 pm

dream in japanese wrote:word of advice: if you don't want to fool around with a boy...DON'T SLEEP IN HIS BED

i need to stop doing that

It's incredible how obvious that advice seems but how hard it is to follow :lol:

beautiful liar · Post by **beautiful liar** » 12/21/2005, 11:40 pm

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 12/22/2005, 2:16 am

How do you find out if a boy's intentions of 'hanging out' are romanically rooted? I mean, he seemed pretty stoked on specifically spending time with me, and I'm not like ass-ugly, and guys tend to like girls....but then again, I am 7 years younger than him, so maybe he just doesn't consider me even on the radar. He definatly made no moves when he had the chance. Geee, dark theatre, me sitting beside him...hmmmm.

Fuck. If only talking about such things wasn't THE most akward thing in the world.

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/22/2005, 4:30 am

Rusty wrote:Dammit Maria!!!! Next time you even wanna think about fooling around with him, imagine my face! That oughta fix ya.

Your ego is obviously bigger than your head.

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 12/22/2005, 10:11 am

Yannic...give him a chance girl. Perhaps he doesn't like to make moves on first dates/hang outs. Even though retard did, alot of guys don't.

You want to know something weird? My "thing" with him really fizzled and died, but now we're like friends with potential, it's weird, and I can't give up hope. I usually trust my feelings, and I still feel good about him despite the fact it seems he totally lost interest in me. I hope I'm not being overly hopeful, but I sort of think that he's just a commitment phob. Hm. Shoot me.

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/22/2005, 5:29 pm

Lando wrote:
Rusty wrote:Dammit Maria!!!! Next time you even wanna think about fooling around with him, imagine my face! That oughta fix ya.

Your ego is obviously bigger than your head.

I what?

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/22/2005, 5:29 pm

thirdhour wrote:How do you find out if a boy's intentions of 'hanging out' are romanically rooted? I mean, he seemed pretty stoked on specifically spending time with me, and I'm not like ass-ugly, and guys tend to like girls....but then again, I am 7 years younger than him, so maybe he just doesn't consider me even on the radar. He definatly made no moves when he had the chance. Geee, dark theatre, me sitting beside him...hmmmm.

Fuck. If only talking about such things wasn't THE most akward thing in the world.

Why don't you bring up the topic with him?

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 12/22/2005, 5:31 pm

Rusty wrote:
thirdhour wrote:How do you find out if a boy's intentions of 'hanging out' are romanically rooted? I mean, he seemed pretty stoked on specifically spending time with me, and I'm not like ass-ugly, and guys tend to like girls....but then again, I am 7 years younger than him, so maybe he just doesn't consider me even on the radar. He definatly made no moves when he had the chance. Geee, dark theatre, me sitting beside him...hmmmm.

Fuck. If only talking about such things wasn't THE most akward thing in the world.

Why don't you bring up the topic with him?

thirdhour wrote:Fuck. If only talking about such things wasn't THE most akward thing in the world.

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/22/2005, 5:35 pm

Oh, I thought she was talking about him finding it awkward or something. It's been a long day.

neoncrossing · Post by **neoncrossing** » 12/22/2005, 6:12 pm

well i cant bring it up with my 17 year old interest....and im 24....i just feel wrong for liking her....like i would be doing something wrong in dating her....but i really havent felt like this about someone in a long time....ugh...wish she wasnt so young or i wasnt so old.....life sucks

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 12/22/2005, 8:28 pm

If/when you decide to go for it, make sure you're super straight forward. Nothing fucks up potential relationships more than confusion.

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/22/2005, 8:37 pm

That is true.

neoncrossing · Post by **neoncrossing** » 12/22/2005, 9:31 pm

I keep on holding myself back from telling her how i feel cause i keep thinking of all the things that might not make it work...like me maybe going to a high school grad dance....or getting in the way of her living these late teen yrs, cause i've already done that....but on the other hand, i really like her....ugh...i hate this