Love & Relationships Thread

closeyoureyes · Post by **closeyoureyes** » 12/20/2005, 12:11 am

OK.
I have this crush...
on this guy I work with...
he's one of the store managers.
25, meh.
he = thinks i'm cute. in a little sister way.
and.
he;'s leaving in a month.
i feel so sad.
i have legitimate feelings of like for this person,
its not lust.

dream in japanese · Post by **dream in japanese** » 12/20/2005, 8:46 am

Rusty wrote:Then keep saying that to yourself! Next time you see him, tell him that you want more. Don't even kiss him, if he tries stop yourself, remember what you want, and move. Tell him that you want more, and don't want to do that anymore. If you can't be trusted alone, bring a friend, go to public places, just control yourself.

that's my plan..but we're having a slumber party tonight..just me and him...it's hard to tell him to sleep on the couch..i get lonely

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 12/20/2005, 11:53 am

I pretended my date was someone else all night last night

Kind of mean :lol:

I'm not left winged!

closeyoureyes · Post by **closeyoureyes** » 12/20/2005, 12:09 pm

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 12/20/2005, 4:01 pm

afealicious wrote::lol::lol::lol:

anyway, i feel the need to post this. credit goes to robbo.

http://entertainment.tv.yahoo.com/news/ ... 40002.html

moral of the story is...i don't know what the moral of the story is.....

aww, damn

http://www.snopes.com/risque/mistaken/netmother.asp

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/20/2005, 7:53 pm

dream in japanese wrote:
Rusty wrote:Then keep saying that to yourself! Next time you see him, tell him that you want more. Don't even kiss him, if he tries stop yourself, remember what you want, and move. Tell him that you want more, and don't want to do that anymore. If you can't be trusted alone, bring a friend, go to public places, just control yourself.

that's my plan..but we're having a slumber party tonight..just me and him...it's hard to tell him to sleep on the couch..i get lonely

Bring a stuffed animal...or tell him to sleep on the floor, or you sleep on the floor. Put something between you and him in the bed. Or control yourself.

Post by **saman** » 12/20/2005, 9:53 pm

Axtech wrote:
afealicious wrote::lol::lol::lol:

anyway, i feel the need to post this. credit goes to robbo.

http://entertainment.tv.yahoo.com/news/ ... 40002.html

moral of the story is...i don't know what the moral of the story is.....

aww, damn

http://www.snopes.com/risque/mistaken/netmother.asp

aww it's not real? ah well. real or not, it was funny to read

its4am_isanybodyhome · Post by **its4am_isanybodyhome** » 12/20/2005, 10:12 pm

neoncrossing wrote:wow...so i think everyone said it was okay for me, a 24 yr old to date an almost 18 yr old girl.....that is actually quite relieving....didnt think that would be the response...thanks guys

and what about a 17-year-old dating a 29-year-old? eh?? enh???
but i think the feelings need to be mutual first.

neoncrossing · Post by **neoncrossing** » 12/20/2005, 10:56 pm

i think they are mutual

Hope · Post by **Hope** » 12/20/2005, 11:00 pm

i.. dont think she was talking about you.

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 12/21/2005, 3:20 am

fucking fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. also, fuckshit. :uh:

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/21/2005, 6:13 am

I don't have a problem with the age difference thing, but honestly, you're RARELY going to see a girl who's almost 30 going for an 17-18 year old boy. I personally feel that these guys who are hitting on these girls or want a "serious relationship" with girls who are like 10 years younger than them are really pathetic. Not that it's wrong in any sense, just that they, themselves are pathetic for not being able to connect with someone who's on more of a similar level in terms of what life they've lived and what they've had the chance to experience. Being 30 and dating a girl who's just out of high school (or is still attending) seems like it's just not fair to the girl. I totally support her decision to enter such a relationship, because she's old enough to express herself and make the decision of who she wants to be with, but she's experienced so much less of what's out there and of what's to come while being young. Being with someone who's already been through that phase in their life could take away a lot of what the girl should experience in her life. What I mean is that someone who's 30ish tends to be in a much more mature mindset in that they want a serious relationship. At 18, people should have fun, go to school, work, do whatever the hell they want, but there's going to be time later to devote yourself to a deep relationship. They should experience their youth first and once they're successful or at a point in their lives where they're ready to be completely grown up, then they should consider dating a 50 year old geezer. Live life while we have it! I say. We only live once after all... Well at least that's what some people believe.

(Note: I edited my post to say 50 year old geezer. Originally it said 50 year old man.)

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 12/21/2005, 10:44 am

Yeah...I agree.

closeyoureyes · Post by **closeyoureyes** » 12/21/2005, 3:04 pm

I agree with you too. I think if its the younger girl who persues, that's a little different. But if its the older guy, I always think, what is wrong with him that he can't find people his own age.

Its hard to date someone older than you because at the basis of everything, you're in different stages of your life. It's hard to bridge that.

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/21/2005, 6:09 pm

thirdhour wrote:fucking fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. also, fuckshit.

What's wrong?

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 12/21/2005, 7:59 pm

Boys.

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/21/2005, 8:07 pm

What about them?

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 12/21/2005, 8:29 pm

They do things WRONG and it FUCKS me over.

Johnny · Post by **Johnny** » 12/21/2005, 8:43 pm

All boys are like that?

pit_girl1 · Post by **pit_girl1** » 12/21/2005, 8:44 pm

Chanandler Bong wrote:All boys are like that?

No.