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Post by Rusty »

I'm not quite sure what you just said. But I suppose you could be right.

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Post by Henrietta »

Ok let me try to explain this a little bit more clearly. You wouldn't like it if a girl did that to you if: you had previously made it clear you were interested but hadn't done anything in a while. Why? Well heck if I know, but it might be because you don't like her anymore. Then she makes a move on you? EMBARASSING.

Does that make more sense?
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Post by Rusty »

It does make sense, yes. The guy may not have made a move possibly because, like me, he is afraid to make the first move, or he is unsure of your feelings, or waiting for you to make the first move. If you aren't sure of his feelings, why don't you just ask him if he's still interested?

Queens Of The Stone Age-Someone's In The Wolf

Once you're lost in twillights's blue
You don't find your way, the way finds you...

Tempt the fates, beware the smile
It hides all the teeth, my dear,
What's behind them...

So glad you could stay
Forever

He steps between the trees, a crooked man
There's blood on the blade
Don't take his hand

You warm by the firelight, in twilight's blue
Shadows creep & dance the walls
He's creeping too..

So glad you could stay
Forever


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Post by happening fish »

Because "no" is too hard/embarassing to hear ;)
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Post by Joanne »

haha, my sister didnt have sex with this kid. it was like a middle school fling-ish thing
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Ding ding ding, Alex wins!!
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Post by dream in japanese »

cass...you say this: so...what's the deal with us? :nod: except when what he says isn't want you want to hear....that sucks :(
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Yeah. I know. Boo.
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Post by thirdhour »

well, it's at that point that you kick him in the balls and run away.

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Sounds fun.
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Post by Johnny »

Not for the dude it doesnt. :no:
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Post by Rusty »

You never know until you try Cass. It's far better to know an answer than just wonder. *refuses to ask out the girl he likes*

Queens Of The Stone Age-Someone's In The Wolf

Once you're lost in twillights's blue
You don't find your way, the way finds you...

Tempt the fates, beware the smile
It hides all the teeth, my dear,
What's behind them...

So glad you could stay
Forever

He steps between the trees, a crooked man
There's blood on the blade
Don't take his hand

You warm by the firelight, in twilight's blue
Shadows creep & dance the walls
He's creeping too..

So glad you could stay
Forever


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Post by laurel »

ok. one halloween pub crawl = huuuuuuuuuge mess for laurel.

i was single. i went with my two best friends. i drank. i'm very friendly when i drink.

1st boy - got along with very well, danced with muchly, kissed. we talked a lot, and i really really liked him. he asked for my number, i gave. never heard back from him.
2nd boy - only talked to on the bus. he asked for my phone number. i was in a super friendly mood, so i was like, SURE! mind you, i had no interest in him. he called me a few times, and i never called him back the last time.
3rd boy - luigi! talked to a bit, had no interest in him either, but again, he wanted my phone number, so i gave, cause i was friendly. he called me once, we talked once, and that was that.i actually met him earlier in the day when he came to my work to buy denim coveralls for his costume. he came with the 4th boy to my work.
4th boy - end of night, approached me, started talking to me. again, i had no interest, but i was friendly, and gave my number. again. my friends and i ended up splitting a ride with him and what not.

now. 5th boy - my ex. this night, i left my cell at home. i came home to about 6 missed calls, three text messages, and one message on my phone. he..wanted to talk to me. he wanted me back. we talked. we agreed...ok, this is a break, we will get back together. things have been progressing since then.

but. 4th boy, i've went for coffee with on two occassions. told him i just want a friend, yaddeedoo. we talk a lot on the phone. but i didn't tell him i was going to be back with my ex.

now, my ex and i are pretty much almost totally back together.
today at work, boy 1 showed up. i entered my phone number in his phone completely wrong. i missed a digit somewhere. he was near my work, decided to pop in to see if i was working, so he could get the right number. i was stupid, and was like, OK! forgot to mention that....hey, i'm almost a taken woman again. cause this guy was the single guy out of the 4 that i gave my number to that i was actually super interested in. but now..
there's my ex. who i still love like crazy..and things have been insanely good. and i do want to be with him. and...i don't know why i didn't say hey, i'm not really single. and i still haven't told boy 4 about my ex either. i'm an idiot when it comes to this.

i'm not used to this much guy attention. two i dealt with well. but now..i don't know. i don't know how i manage these things. i don't know how to turn down boy 1 and 4, both who are showing a lot of interest in me...because i've never really had to turn anyone down before.

really, this is just my huge rant about my stupidity with boys. (frick, it's long)

moral of the story : don't give out your phone number to anyone who asks when you are in a drunken, friendly mood.
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Post by Rusty »

Just explain to boys 1 and 4 that you are just interested in being friends. Tell them you and your ex have reconciled, and that you are just looking for friendship.

Queens Of The Stone Age-Someone's In The Wolf

Once you're lost in twillights's blue
You don't find your way, the way finds you...

Tempt the fates, beware the smile
It hides all the teeth, my dear,
What's behind them...

So glad you could stay
Forever

He steps between the trees, a crooked man
There's blood on the blade
Don't take his hand

You warm by the firelight, in twilight's blue
Shadows creep & dance the walls
He's creeping too..

So glad you could stay
Forever


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Post by laurel »

but i led them on....after i knew i was getting back with my ex. why, i don't know. i'm friendly? i like new people?
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Post by Hope »

yes you do?
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come back again
to here knows when

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Post by thirdhour »

Well...don't tell them that you got back together with your ex before you led them on. More recently would sound better. :nod:
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Post by laurel »

"my ex...came back from...uh..singapore? yesterday? and uh...we..are now back together. ITWASFUNKNOWINGYOU, I'MSORRY,DON'THATEME"
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Post by thirdhour »

It might be akward during the conversation, but what's the chances you'll see either one of these boys too many times again?

Boy 4, you already told you were looking for a friend. Boy 1...you haven't actually gone out with him, have you, just flirting?

It can be done, I guarentee it!
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Post by laurel »

my problem is i hate letting people down. in any way. boy 1...will be much easier to let down. but boy 4 is such a sweetie. the only thing stopping me from just telling him what's happening is the fact that his last gf left him for her ex. and...i feel bad saying, 'hey, i'm back with my ex'...
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