Love & Relationships Thread

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 11/17/2005, 7:40 pm

I didn't mean you two were going to jump all over each other on Saturday, but having someone else along just makes it more casual, and there's no "wait, does HE/SHE think this is a date?" Plus maybe you'll be able to control yourself, you dirty dirty girl.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 11/17/2005, 8:07 pm

haha

no no, my only other male friend is my roommate who a)would never agree to come and b)this guy might just hit on him anyway

don't ask!
kthx!

nikki4982 · Post by **nikki4982** » 11/18/2005, 6:33 am

happening fish wrote:okay that last bit sounded extraordinarily and unnecessarily dirty.
super = turning the last bit of a joint around in your mouth and letting someone else inhale from it. she gave me one too right after

Thank you for explaining that. I was like

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dream in japanese · Post by **dream in japanese** » 11/18/2005, 9:20 am

there's this guy. i thought things were going well...and it's not that things aren't going well but ok...this is his thought process:

"let's see, we hang out all the time, talk every day, make out and cuddle and watch movies alll the time, clearly she knows i just want to be friends with her" :wtf:

so i find out by me having to ask him, that he just wants to be best friends with me for now cause his last g/f screwed him up. he had NOO idea he was leading me on!!! i got over this initial upsetness and frustration and now we're just super best friends with i'm hoping potential...but can someone help me understand how he could think that i knew he just wanted to be friends!!... :freak:

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 11/18/2005, 11:46 am

I have that same problem. Except for the making out part. It's more like the hand holding/cuddling part. I don't know I just get the vibe he is still interested BUT NOTHING EVER HAPPENS EVER! Seriously, how long can I wait? the answer is: forever. Because there is no one else right now. Sad.

Joanne · Post by **Joanne** » 11/18/2005, 2:08 pm

would you....
date your sister's ex boyfriend?

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 11/18/2005, 2:10 pm

um...NO?

dream in japanese · Post by **dream in japanese** » 11/18/2005, 2:17 pm

Henrietta wrote:I have that same problem. Except for the making out part. It's more like the hand holding/cuddling part. I don't know I just get the vibe he is still interested BUT NOTHING EVER HAPPENS EVER! Seriously, how long can I wait? the answer is: forever. Because there is no one else right now. Sad.

have you talked to him about it though? cause maybe he's unsure as to what you want.

what i don't get is how a guy who just wants to be friends but acts like more than friends wouldn't feel the need to clue me in!!!! :freak:

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 11/18/2005, 2:41 pm

Maybe he was just hoping you felt the same way. I've decided that that is how relationships work, we just hope the other person feels the same way.

No I haven't asked him about it. What am I supposed to say? I like you, can we get back to hand holding and perhaps progress? I just can't bring myself to say that when he doesn't make more of an effort to call me. He ALWAYS comes when I ask him to, except for one thing I can think of. But he never initiates. So yeah. I hate him for stealing my heart.

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 11/18/2005, 4:08 pm

Maybe he's just timid. If you wanna progress you might have to make the first move.

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 11/18/2005, 5:11 pm

And be EXTREMELY blunt. Call him names. Works with me everytime.

"HEY MO YOU STUPIDHEAD! Here's a hint! I like you. In fact, I wouldn't mind kissing you. Just to let you know, unless you come from some crazy land where not doing anything is a sign of affection, THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO KISS ME!"

If he does nothing or nervously laughs and tries to back off, well, he's not a strong enough man to handle you. Or spend the rest of the night randomly yelling at him while he's trying to talk to ther people, " HEY, I'M CASS, REMEMBER ME? You know, the one you're too stupid to kiss? I'M STILL WAITING!"

You will be a HIT with the guys! :nod:

*shrug*

xoNoDoubt69 · Post by **xoNoDoubt69** » 11/18/2005, 7:29 pm

Joanne wrote:would you....
date your sister's ex boyfriend?

badddddd idea!

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 11/18/2005, 8:47 pm

someone ehlp me with my prblem!

Hope · Post by **Hope** » 11/18/2005, 9:05 pm

*ehlp*

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 11/18/2005, 9:21 pm

closeyoureyes · Post by **closeyoureyes** » 11/18/2005, 10:53 pm

i'll help you

i got a boyfriend
his name is peter
i call him petey
he calls me cute
its a pretty sweet relationship, for one built on physicality.
we talk though, its pretty sweet.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 11/18/2005, 10:59 pm

that don't help none
i was hittin on my own peter earlier
he's such an ass
love 'im

Post by **faninor** » 11/18/2005, 11:18 pm

xoNoDoubt69 wrote:
Joanne wrote:would you....
date your sister's ex boyfriend?

badddddd idea!

That's like indirectly having sex with your sister!

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 11/19/2005, 1:00 am

thirdhour wrote:And be EXTREMELY blunt. Call him names. Works with me everytime.

"HEY MO YOU STUPIDHEAD! Here's a hint! I like you. In fact, I wouldn't mind kissing you. Just to let you know, unless you come from some crazy land where not doing anything is a sign of affection, THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO KISS ME!"

If he does nothing or nervously laughs and tries to back off, well, he's not a strong enough man to handle you. Or spend the rest of the night randomly yelling at him while he's trying to talk to ther people, " HEY, I'M CASS, REMEMBER ME? You know, the one you're too stupid to kiss? I'M STILL WAITING!"

You will be a HIT with the guys!

*shrug*

I'd love if a girl did that. I'm always bad at initiating stuff, I never know if I'm supposed to, and I'm afriad if I try something and the girl doesn't like it, I've just fucked up pretty bad.

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 11/19/2005, 1:38 am

Yeah but you wouldn't like it if you really didn't have feelings for the girl. It would be even worse if you thought you did, but then changed your mind.

Yannic. Good idea, I'll get working on that.

/frustration