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^but what does that have to do w/ kam? for god's sake you people, stay on topic!
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It's good?
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for some reason I doubt it.
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Goodbye you liar,
Well you sipped from the cup but you don't own up to anything
Then you think you will inspire
Take apart your head
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Take apart your demons, then you add it to the list.

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.:x:Marissa:x:. wrote:Thanks everybody for the advice.

But....about 30 mins ago, I broke up with him.

I expressed my concerns about moving too fast and getting too serious, but I knew that I was just going to drag things on, when I knew this isnt what I wanted. I told him that it wasnt the right time for a relationship.

*sigh*


Awww you did the right thing :) Good job!!! Most people in your position would have stayed for all of the wrong reasons and I am very proud that you were true to yourself and what you wanted. :)
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I don't know why, but when I read Val's post I thought:

"Holy crap, Val sounds like a bone-a-fide grown-up"

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"When looking up there, I just felt whole, like I belonged. Like one day I too would shine my most brilliant. Sitting there also made me think about sitting through services at my little country church back home. About that never-changing congregation of the same sixty-seven people and everyone has known you since before you were born. Now, out here in the real world, everything just seemed more vivid than when I used to sit in that little pew. That pew that was now so, so far away from where I was. I feared I had somehow left God behind there, too. I feared he was somehow just sitting there, saving my seat on the fifth pew from the front row, just waiting on me to come back. I left so quickly, I worried that he may not have noticed I was gone. And, now, I’m just too far away to find. So he’s just sitting there, patiently waiting on me to come back. I closed my eyes and prayed a moment. I hoped more than anything that he could still hear me." -an excerpt from my novella, A Sea of Fallen Leaves.

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Val is nineteen going on forty-five.
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finding emo wrote:I'd say... for right now, stay because it has only been a week and maybe he will calm down a little.


If not, you are going to have to stop and reflect a little about what you want and make sure that whatever you decide you will be happy. There's really no sense in having a boyfriend if every time you see him you are stressing out about how you both want different things.


Like a girl without multiple personalities?

hahaha oh man I kill me.
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:lol:
go fuck yourself.
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I thought this was a new topic for a bit, then I saw Val and was like :wtf:

Queens Of The Stone Age-Someone's In The Wolf

Once you're lost in twillights's blue
You don't find your way, the way finds you...

Tempt the fates, beware the smile
It hides all the teeth, my dear,
What's behind them...

So glad you could stay
Forever

He steps between the trees, a crooked man
There's blood on the blade
Don't take his hand

You warm by the firelight, in twilight's blue
Shadows creep & dance the walls
He's creeping too..

So glad you could stay
Forever


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