Question on guys
It was an accident.
Queens Of The Stone Age-Someone's In The Wolf
Once you're lost in twillights's blue
You don't find your way, the way finds you...
Tempt the fates, beware the smile
It hides all the teeth, my dear,
What's behind them...
So glad you could stay
Forever
He steps between the trees, a crooked man
There's blood on the blade
Don't take his hand
You warm by the firelight, in twilight's blue
Shadows creep & dance the walls
He's creeping too..
So glad you could stay
Forever
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i just read this entire thread from front to back and now its all a blur.. *hazed eyes*
i agree that you should start out as friends before you actually date. cuz... you wouldnt know anything about them beforehand.
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i agree that you should start out as friends before you actually date. cuz... you wouldnt know anything about them beforehand.
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I've dated someone I didn't know at all beforehand... and I've dated a really good friend (Monkey 
)... both worked out really well (the first ended in complicated circumstances)... so... there's really no logic. It's just a matter of finding someone you can get along with and share enough interests with to not get bored. There's somebody out there for everyone. I mean, even Hitler had Ava Braun.
)... both worked out really well (the first ended in complicated circumstances)... so... there's really no logic. It's just a matter of finding someone you can get along with and share enough interests with to not get bored. There's somebody out there for everyone. I mean, even Hitler had Ava Braun.<table><tr><td>~ Nikki Edwards
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<font color="#3C8C8B">Imagine there's no heaven, it's easy if you try, no hell below us,
above us only sky, imagine all the people, <font color="#FFFFFF">living</font> for today...</font>
<font color="#50B4B3">Imagine there's no countries, it isn't hard to do, nothing to kill or die
for, no religion too, imagine all the people, living <font color="#FFFFFF">life</font> in peace...</font>
<font color="#89CDCC">Imagine no possesions, I wonder if you can, no need for greed or <font color="#FFFFFF">hunger</font>,
a brotherhood of man, imagine all the people, sharing all the <font color="#FFFFFF">world</font>...</font>
<font color="#B1DFDE">You may say I'm a <font color="#FFFFFF">dreamer</font>, but I'm not the only one, I hope
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<center><img src="../phpBB2/files/squiggle.gif">
<font color="#3C8C8B">Imagine there's no heaven, it's easy if you try, no hell below us,
above us only sky, imagine all the people, <font color="#FFFFFF">living</font> for today...</font>
<font color="#50B4B3">Imagine there's no countries, it isn't hard to do, nothing to kill or die
for, no religion too, imagine all the people, living <font color="#FFFFFF">life</font> in peace...</font>
<font color="#89CDCC">Imagine no possesions, I wonder if you can, no need for greed or <font color="#FFFFFF">hunger</font>,
a brotherhood of man, imagine all the people, sharing all the <font color="#FFFFFF">world</font>...</font>
<font color="#B1DFDE">You may say I'm a <font color="#FFFFFF">dreamer</font>, but I'm not the only one, I hope
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Joey wrote::GASP: you've been here long enough rusty, i think you should know everyone's name by now
shame on you!
I don't know most of the people's names here... We all make it sound so easy to maintain friendships or get dates. We all have to realise there are a lot of factors that intervene though, even if both people have moved on, it still might not work.
Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
What me and Lando have been saying is that you have to keep the lines of communication open. a lot of relationships don't work because of this. I guarentee that if you talk about your relationship and aren't afraid to be honest you can make a relationship work if you want it to. It's about maturity, it's about understanding, and it's about honesty. Use all three of those and dating can be very easy, and you'll find there is less heartache.
Most often it's the out of the blue stuff that hurts the most. If you can be honest with yourself and let go then you won't be so heart broken.
I can't wait until the day schools are over-funded and the military is forced to hold bake sales to buy planes.
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"
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J-Neli wrote:Joey wrote::GASP: you've been here long enough rusty, i think you should know everyone's name by now
shame on you!We all make it sound so easy to maintain friendships or get dates. We all have to realise there are a lot of factors that intervene though, even if both people have moved on, it still might not work.
Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
What me and Lando have been saying is that you have to keep the lines of communication open. a lot of relationships don't work because of this. I guarentee that if you talk about your relationship and aren't afraid to be honest you can make a relationship work if you want it to. It's about maturity, it's about understanding, and it's about honesty. Use all three of those and dating can be very easy, and you'll find there is less heartache.
Most often it's the out of the blue stuff that hurts the most. If you can be honest with yourself and let go then you won't be so heart broken.
And the compromise. If they are really important to you, What's more important? Having them in your life the only way you can (friendship) or not having them in your life at all.
If their friendship and they themselves mean a lot to you, you'll put forth whatever effort necessary to have them be a part of your life.
J-Neli wrote:Joey wrote::GASP: you've been here long enough rusty, i think you should know everyone's name by now
shame on you!
you're just not as cool
♥ Joey
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Hey, I know where you work! So I'd watch what you say! .... even though I'm 3 hours from there now... and ya, it's an empty threat....
.... even though I'm 3 hours from there now... and ya, it's an empty threat.... I can't wait until the day schools are over-funded and the military is forced to hold bake sales to buy planes.
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"
haha! i don't work there anymore.
you can no longer hold that empty threat over me anymore!
you can no longer hold that empty threat over me anymore!
♥ Joey
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Give it time. Time heals all wounds
I can't wait until the day schools are over-funded and the military is forced to hold bake sales to buy planes.
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"
"It's a great thing when you realize you still have the ability to surprise yourself. Makes you wonder what else you can do that you've forgotten about"
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Hey Rusty, do you even know my name? :p
I have never dated a friend, so I wouldn't know. Hell, I've hardly dated. But I've had a friend telling me that he has feelings for me but we've been ok about keeping it on a normal level...I hope it can stay that way.
I've just decided I'm asexual. I don't care anymore.
I have never dated a friend, so I wouldn't know. Hell, I've hardly dated. But I've had a friend telling me that he has feelings for me but we've been ok about keeping it on a normal level...I hope it can stay that way.
I've just decided I'm asexual. I don't care anymore.
Time is a bitch 
I always fall for the wrong guys. You know the type of guys who would never fall for me. They are like above my reach, to good for me.
And I'm way too shy. I turn red like a tomato when a "nice guy" only looks my way.
I've never really dated because of it. When I kinda like a guy and he kinda likes me (which only happened like 3 times, well from what I know) I freak out. I just sort of freeze and don't really respond on the hints. The thought of someone liking me/ falling for me, is just too weird for me. It’s not that I don’t want a boyfriend or anything! Pff no! But I don’t want a boyfriend ‘because I want a boyfriend.’ Well, you know what I mean right.
Well maybe it's not just shyness but also low self esteem.
I always fall for the wrong guys. You know the type of guys who would never fall for me. They are like above my reach, to good for me.
And I'm way too shy. I turn red like a tomato when a "nice guy" only looks my way.
I've never really dated because of it. When I kinda like a guy and he kinda likes me (which only happened like 3 times, well from what I know) I freak out. I just sort of freeze and don't really respond on the hints. The thought of someone liking me/ falling for me, is just too weird for me. It’s not that I don’t want a boyfriend or anything! Pff no! But I don’t want a boyfriend ‘because I want a boyfriend.’ Well, you know what I mean right.
Well maybe it's not just shyness but also low self esteem.