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Lando wrote:
Iseveryoneok wrote:
Joe Cool wrote:So why are you saying yes to the guys you cant see yourself with. It doesnt make sense.


no self esteem whatsoever. i think that when guys treat me like shit its my fault.


Become a lesbian. Sinead's considering it.


so i can have girls treat me like shit. oh yay. no wait... they already do that
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:lol:
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But i like the boys more. Much more. Until the next time one hurts me, and then i'm going 100% lesbian.
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You watched Donnie Darko...good girl. Anyway I'm not here to spam I was here to comment. Most guys are jerks, and even the "nice" guys can be a jerk at times. Some guys just take it way to far and being a jerk becomes their entire persona. The important thing to remember is that it is not your fault if a guy treats you like shit. No matter what he says it isn't, nobody deserves to be treated like shit and it isn't your fault he's just trying to put the blame on you because he's an asshole. When you date someone just make sure he is nice to you and that he isn't slowly turning into a huge jerk. If he does look like he's gonna be a huge jerk then if you still care for him try to work it out if nothing changes, dump him before he can hurt you.

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girls might be even worse .. backstabbing bitches :lol:
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Iseveryoneok wrote:
Lando wrote:
Iseveryoneok wrote:
Joe Cool wrote:So why are you saying yes to the guys you cant see yourself with. It doesnt make sense.


no self esteem whatsoever. i think that when guys treat me like shit its my fault.


Become a lesbian. Sinead's considering it.


so i can have girls treat me like shit. oh yay. no wait... they already do that


Some have done it to Ol' Lando too... I have a special word reserved for that kind of woman.

Picklefacedswinemonkey.
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Just hold out for "THE ONE" and you'll be fine. Thats my advice to anyone. Unless you dont believe in "THE ONE".. in which case I wish you good luck.
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Rusty wrote:You watched Donnie Darko...good girl. Anyway I'm not here to spam I was here to comment. Most guys are jerks, and even the "nice" guys can be a jerk at times. Some guys just take it way to far and being a jerk becomes their entire persona. The important thing to remember is that it is not your fault if a guy treats you like shit. No matter what he says it isn't, nobody deserves to be treated like shit and it isn't your fault he's just trying to put the blame on you because he's an asshole. When you date someone just make sure he is nice to you and that he isn't slowly turning into a huge jerk. If he does look like he's gonna be a huge jerk then if you still care for him try to work it out if nothing changes, dump him before he can hurt you.


good advice. and yeah... donnie darko rocks.
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Joe Cool wrote:Just hold out for "THE ONE" and you'll be fine. Thats my advice to anyone. Unless you dont believe in "THE ONE".. in which case I wish you good luck.


yes then you start going old and grey while you're waiting, like me :lol: :uh:

<---- 4:20!!! :lol: :P
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I honestly think girls that don't think they deserve the best, ie girls with low self confidence, tend to attract the guys who either treat them like shit, or play them.
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Joe Cool wrote:Just hold out for "THE ONE" and you'll be fine. Thats my advice to anyone. Unless you dont believe in "THE ONE".. in which case I wish you good luck.


good advice as well... my brother tells me that. but i dont see people caring about me that much.
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Cass wrote:I honestly think girls that don't think they deserve the best, ie girls with low self confidence, tend to attract the guys who either treat them like shit, or play them.


or vice versa. i know guys whose strategy is that
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Lando wrote:
Iseveryoneok wrote:
Lando wrote:
Iseveryoneok wrote:
Joe Cool wrote:So why are you saying yes to the guys you cant see yourself with. It doesnt make sense.


no self esteem whatsoever. i think that when guys treat me like shit its my fault.


Become a lesbian. Sinead's considering it.


so i can have girls treat me like shit. oh yay. no wait... they already do that


Some have done it to Ol' Lando too... I have a special word reserved for that kind of woman.

Picklefacedswinemonkey.


creative... ill use that if u dont mind
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See the flaw with the one, is at one time, i *so* thought it was Andrew Eubank. And see how that turned out?

:cuss:
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You have to be patient. For example.. I have yet to date anyone... :oops:. Crap eh?
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Cracky wrote:See the flaw with the one, is at one time, i *so* thought it was Andrew Eubank. And see how that turned out?

:cuss:


yep, been there .. well not with andrew .. but same scenario :lol:
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You mean guys pretending they have to self confidence to gain pity attradtion from girls? That just doesn't seem very effective to me....
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Joe Cool wrote:Just hold out for "THE ONE" and you'll be fine. Thats my advice to anyone. Unless you dont believe in "THE ONE".. in which case I wish you good luck.


See this isn't always the best advice. Sitting around waiting for things to magically go right won't always work. You have to take destiny into your own hands a lot of times, or you'll be waiting your whole life for a lot of things that will never happen.
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Cracky wrote:See the flaw with the one, is at one time, i *so* thought it was Andrew Eubank. And see how that turned out?

:cuss:


Dont give me that!!! You so KNEW that Andrew Ewwbank was a scumbag even before he asked you out.
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Joey wrote:
Cracky wrote:See the flaw with the one, is at one time, i *so* thought it was Andrew Eubank. And see how that turned out?

:cuss:


yep, been there .. well not with andrew .. but same scenario :lol:

I was gonna be like, isnt he a *@*&(#*&#(*
:lol:
And to Lando: I've never ever ever asked anyone else out. And stuff still happens, regardless.
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Joe Cool wrote:
Cracky wrote:See the flaw with the one, is at one time, i *so* thought it was Andrew Eubank. And see how that turned out?

:cuss:


Dont give me that!!! You so KNEW that Andrew Ewwbank was a scumbag even before he asked you out.

But Taylor, i referred to him as "God". Even ask Jason! I thought i *loved* him! Scumbags can change. :love: :P :lol:

Edit: Andrew Ewwbank! :lol: :lol: :lol:

!!!!!!!
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