My boyfriend and I havent been on the best terms lately and have been avoiding each other then blaming the other for not being there. And when I tried to work things out, (cause I do really love him and he loves me) he wasn't having it and said "Im going to get drunk. Goodnight" and left. I text him and said if he wasnt gonna try to work things out then he could just forget about me. No point in being in a relationship if you dont try to fix it. I got a call 5 seconds later him telling me he loved me but had a hard day and still wanted to get drunk and I should fuck off and let him get drunk - but he loved me.
YEAH.
Didn't make me feel any better. Would that help you? No.
Jeni wrote:My boyfriend and I havent been on the best terms lately and have been avoiding each other then blaming the other for not being there. And when I tried to work things out, (cause I do really love him and he loves me) he wasn't having it and said "Im going to get drunk. Goodnight" and left. I text him and said if he wasnt gonna try to work things out then he could just forget about me. No point in being in a relationship if you dont try to fix it. I got a call 5 seconds later him telling me he loved me but had a hard day and still wanted to get drunk and I should fuck off and let him get drunk - but he loved me.
YEAH.
Didn't make me feel any better. Would that help you? No.
No not at all... sorry to hear that things aren't working out as well as they could.
He better apologize!
Hey cass, here's another reason why Guys are assholes and I didn't even have to post it in the Ask Lando Thread!
Nah, I wont dump him. Not even an option. He really is having a hard day and he'll apologize. I just told him to forget about me to make him realize what an ASS he was being to me. Plus I knew saying that would make him calm down. He doesn't want to lose me and I dont want to lose him. You know someone long enough, you know how to quickly grab their attention and point out the mistake their making before it goes too far.
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But wait, I'm lost, is there a post about dumping him above the one from Cass?
Cause im not seeing it...
She was just commenting on the fact that its not a reason to dump him. No previous post. I wouldn't dump him anyway unless he cheated on me or hit me. Normally we get along really well, we were best friends for ages before we got together so there is no doubt we'll last through anything. He knows my buttons and I know his. Makes for fun arguements when needed! But - It's all relative to us, and we can calm the other as quickly as tempers flair.
yeah that's the easiest way to have a relationship, when you know them personally before hand. However, it also hurts more if you can't keep the friendship if the relationship ends.
I was depressed but damn it. I am laughing. 
