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Johnny · Post by **Johnny** » 4/29/2004, 10:13 pm

Axtech wrote:Well, there aren't a lot of other threads on the topic of "fucking" on this board, so your options were limited.

Oh, semantics...

theres never been a sex thread?

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 4/29/2004, 10:20 pm

Oh Josh, sometimes I wonder. You sit there and think that people should be more open to this!?

just to let you know many girls do it as well

That in no way reflects how many girls masturbate. She's one out of many, and she didn't even say she did it.

I think that all sounds horribly wrong. The first thing I thought was that sexual acts are private. They are either private to you, in a masturbating sort of situation. Or they are private between you and your lover. If you were going to make that some sort of foreplay as Robbo mentioned, fine. But if you're gonna do that with another guy, then you might want to question your sexuatlity. And if you want to do that with your brother, you might want to think about incest. If you would openly do that with your brother, what else would you do? That's just horribly disgusting, in my opinion.

Post by **xjsb125** » 4/29/2004, 10:36 pm

What. The. Fuck. ????????????????????????????????????????

Next you're gonna want to know if it's cool to "sword fight" with your sibling. I couldn't do the self loving with another guy in the room. That's just sick. I'm gonna go puke the entire of my insides out now.

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 4/29/2004, 11:38 pm

Hey just a question to those who are experienced in this field.

Is it okay to masturbate with a pet, say a dog or a cat in the room?

I don't have any pets, but I want to see if you're self conscious about it or not.

I will laugh at you either way, but you should still tell me.

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 4/29/2004, 11:45 pm

I think it's ok, with fish.

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 4/30/2004, 6:06 am

Lando wrote:Hey just a question to those who are experienced in this field.

Is it okay to masturbate with a pet, say a dog or a cat in the room?

I don't have any pets, but I want to see if you're self conscious about it or not.

I will laugh at you either way, but you should still tell me.

With this, as with all questions, let's turn to movies...

"And it's okay to put peanut butter on your testicles and let your dog lick it off" - Road Trip

So, clearly, it's okay! :thumbs:

trentm32 · Post by **trentm32** » 4/30/2004, 8:32 am

lemonphile4 · Post by **lemonphile4** » 4/30/2004, 9:11 am

Axtech wrote:With this, as with all questions, let's turn to movies...

"And it's okay to put peanut butter on your testicles and let your dog lick it off" - Road Trip

So, clearly, it's okay!

Oh. Man.

As far as masterbating with other people, I think it depends on how you view sexual activity. If you see it just as a physical need, like eating or sleeping, then you're probably not going to have as much of a problem jacking off in front of your siblings as if you attach emotions to sex.

Neil · Post by **Neil** » 4/30/2004, 10:04 am

yeah........thats disturbing.

Now........if it were for a boyfriend/girlfriend to do that sorta thing, or a husband/wife, then maybe it wouldn't be disgusting.

Tattooed Angels · Post by **Tattooed Angels** » 4/30/2004, 10:25 am

Now that I know where the question is coming from I can say something. While there is nothing wrong with masturbation(or self love in PC language) I do think there is something wrong with doing it with a sibling, or parent. Might not be legally wrong, but something about that isn't right.

The only time Mutual Masturbatoin is acceptible in my mind is with a sexual partner. YOu either do it in front of them or do each other..(read your sex books)It heightens the experience because you are showing one another what touch turns you one sexually

As for a parent showing a child. Somethiing like that is not taught, but felt. Kids are naturally curious and will eventualy stumble upon it. The only thing I think a parent should do is let the child know there is nothing wrong with it.

When I was a kid it wasn't like today. Told stuff like you will go blind, it will fall off , etc.. All stupid tales to get kids and people not to do it.

that is the only thing I will say on the subject.

hpdfk · Post by **hpdfk** » 4/30/2004, 3:38 pm

Josh wrote:if i had a brother and he had the same beliefs as me then yes, it increases the orgasm

GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH! (that was my literal reaction)

More thoughts: Guys do not do this as much as portrayed in this thread (aka ever). I would like to stay the hell out of any sexual activity by another family member.

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 4/30/2004, 3:45 pm

Josh wrote:if i had a brother and he had the same beliefs as me then yes, it increases the orgasm

Do you have any siblings at all?

Penguin Josh · Post by **Penguin Josh** » 4/30/2004, 3:51 pm

yes i have a sister, but i would never do that with here because there is too big of an age gap, not that i would do that with her anyway, because i think that is wrong.

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 4/30/2004, 4:33 pm

Okay, that's exactly it! What's the difference between you and your sister (regardless of age) masturbating whilst watching eachother and you and your hypothetical brother doing it?

Penguin Josh · Post by **Penguin Josh** » 4/30/2004, 5:01 pm

we would be the same sex, with less of the whole incest thing involved. Plus i just find that wrong and with your brother not.

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 4/30/2004, 5:10 pm

That's really weird. A brother is still a sibling. A brother is still incest.

Penguin Josh · Post by **Penguin Josh** » 4/30/2004, 5:16 pm

but it is only incest if you do anything beyond just watching each other, like if they did it to each other then that would be incest.

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 4/30/2004, 5:25 pm

Wouldn't it be considered homosexual with another guy watching you? Brother or not.

Penguin Josh · Post by **Penguin Josh** » 4/30/2004, 5:33 pm

here read this, this is where i get my info.

http://www.jackinworld.com/library/arti ... mosex.html

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 4/30/2004, 6:02 pm

Perhaps your desire to have sexual (yes, mutual masturbation is sexual) relations with a male, and possibly a sibling, means that you should start re-evaluating your sexuality. At this point in your life, it's normal to think about exploring and wondering about different things. However, before you go out and try to justify it by getting a board full of people you get along with to agree with it, you should really look inside and find out if you agree with it. This could all just be pubescent curiosity. Then again, it may not be. This is a time to find out about yourself and your own sexuality, not what everyone else thinks.

However, you have to ensure that anything you do get into isn't going to harm you or the other party(s) emotionally. Incest, or the desire for some sort of incestual relationship, is something that has proved to be emotionally damaging. When living in a society that does not condone such actions, it takes very strong motivation to participate in them, and most often this motivation comes from all the wrong sources.

Basically, my advice to you is to do some serious soul searching before you go out to find a buddy who wants to participate in some mutual chicken-choking. As you can see from the reactions from essentially everyone on the board (at least all of those who posted), this is not considered a "normal" activity. It is apparent that (whether consciously or not) you posted about this in hopes that it would prove your feelings to be "normal".

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