I would like to see everyone's stand on mutual masturbation, like if you were to masturbate and a friend, brother(if you are a boy), sister(if you are a girl), is normal, or is it ok in your thoughts?
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Josh wrote:I would like to see everyone's stand on mutual masturbation, like if you were to masturbate and a friend, brother(if you are a boy), sister(if you are a girl), is normal, or ok in your thoughts?
Just what is it you want to know? Is it normal if someone walked in on you? Is it normal to think of them when doing it, or do each other?
sounds like you have been watching too many talk shows.
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here this is where it all came from
and john and I got into a discussion about that wether it was ok for the 2 boys to be doing that, so i decided to bring it on here to let you guys voice your opiniun.
Q: I am a single father raising two teenage boys. About a year ago, my sons returned from a weekend trip to find me masturbating in the jacuzzi. Recently, they came to me and asked me if I masturbated. I told them that I did and that it was perfectly normal for men to do so. Now my sons have jumped head-first into candid questions, and the other night on my way to the bathroom, I passed by the living room and found both of them masturbating to some porn they had snuck from my closet. I quietly made my bathroom trip and returned to my bed. Do I just start passing out the porn and giving technique advice? Is it okay to let them masturbate together? I want to be open, but how open?
A: Discussing masturbation openly with your sons is admirable. I'd leave whether or not they masturbate together entirely up to them. Many brothers do so while growing up, and in most cases this in itself does not become a problem. Actively providing pornography to underage persons may be technically illegal, but tacitly allowing your sons access to erotic materials in the privacy of your home is really no one else's business. You might caution them that pornography is often not a realistic portrayal of sex; at the same time, many folks learn something about the realities of human sexuality from viewing pornography. By communicating honestly on these subjects, both your sons, and you, will benefit.
and john and I got into a discussion about that wether it was ok for the 2 boys to be doing that, so i decided to bring it on here to let you guys voice your opiniun.
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Never done it, and I personally think it'd be REALLY icky masturbating with my brother.
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"When looking up there, I just felt whole, like I belonged. Like one day I too would shine my most brilliant. Sitting there also made me think about sitting through services at my little country church back home. About that never-changing congregation of the same sixty-seven people and everyone has known you since before you were born. Now, out here in the real world, everything just seemed more vivid than when I used to sit in that little pew. That pew that was now so, so far away from where I was. I feared I had somehow left God behind there, too. I feared he was somehow just sitting there, saving my seat on the fifth pew from the front row, just waiting on me to come back. I left so quickly, I worried that he may not have noticed I was gone. And, now, I’m just too far away to find. So he’s just sitting there, patiently waiting on me to come back. I closed my eyes and prayed a moment. I hoped more than anything that he could still hear me." -an excerpt from my novella, A Sea of Fallen Leaves.
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If you're that comfortable with yourself that you can masterbate with your siblings, I don't see why not. It isn't hurting anyone.
I have a story about masterbation, actually:
My psych professor told us last week about the time she worked at a kind of halfway house for mental patients. Basically, you would go there to learn how to live life normally. There was a patient there who would go up to her everyday and say, "I want to punch you in the face." She went to her supervisor about it and he was unsympathetic.
She wanted the patient guy to get kicked out of there. She got it. It turns out one day he was masterbating in a chair and flicking a lighter at the same time. Well, one thing led to another and he ended up setting the chair on fire.
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I have a story about masterbation, actually:
My psych professor told us last week about the time she worked at a kind of halfway house for mental patients. Basically, you would go there to learn how to live life normally. There was a patient there who would go up to her everyday and say, "I want to punch you in the face." She went to her supervisor about it and he was unsympathetic.
She wanted the patient guy to get kicked out of there. She got it. It turns out one day he was masterbating in a chair and flicking a lighter at the same time. Well, one thing led to another and he ended up setting the chair on fire.
the end
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Never would I in a billion years masturbate with my sister.