So, the girl i was talking about is still talking to me, but seems to be kind of ignoring me when she has the chance. She doesn't seem mad at me or anything. Also, i am starting to realize where i fit in at school. I still have friends all over the place, but do nothing with them outside of school. I now am planning on doing stuff with two other kids that are at my school. We were friends in middle school. But, i don't know how to like do stuff with them and then make sure that we keep on doing stuff. Like, how will i know that they are my little group of friends? Bleh, i don't know. I'm not as worried about all of this stuff as i used to be. I am actually feeling a little bit more laid back and nonchalant about stuff. Which is good.
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It takes time. They're not gonna be your buds and call you all the time in two days. You gotta hang out with them, invite them to do stuff, and just work on it.
In other news. What does it mean when a guy says that he wants to kiss you one week, then the next he says you are really close friends. I'm confused
I am not very happy right now. I have been really good friends with someone for a really long time. I think it was grade 5 that we met. Anyways, we have been really close. Recently absolutely nothing has changed but its like we arn't friends anymore. We have been distant in a way. I mean, its sort of hard to explain but when we are in a big group, we are talking to other people and then when we get together there is nothing to say. Its really sad. I don't want to lose my best friend but I am not even sure if there is something going on or not.
You know, its likely just me over analyzing everything. I do that way to often and it fucks up my head.
-Sarah Goodbye you liar, Well you sipped from the cup but you don't own up to anything Then you think you will inspire Take apart your head (and I wish I could inspire) Take apart your demons, then you add it to the list.
Random Name wrote:I am not very happy right now. I have been really good friends with someone for a really long time. I think it was grade 5 that we met. Anyways, we have been really close. Recently absolutely nothing has changed but its like we arn't friends anymore. We have been distant in a way. I mean, its sort of hard to explain but when we are in a big group, we are talking to other people and then when we get together there is nothing to say. Its really sad. I don't want to lose my best friend but I am not even sure if there is something going on or not.
You know, its likely just me over analyzing everything. I do that way to often and it fucks up my head.
Ah yes. I'm currently going through something similar.
-Sarah Goodbye you liar, Well you sipped from the cup but you don't own up to anything Then you think you will inspire Take apart your head (and I wish I could inspire) Take apart your demons, then you add it to the list.
EVERYONE CAN SEE IT, BUT ONLY YOU CAN FEEL ITS TRUE WARMTH.
THANK YOU FOR BEING THE PISS IN MY PANTS.
!-¤M.a.r.i.s.s.a¤-! Guy: Her locker's down the hall, I've counted 17 from mine.
Girl: Does he see me? Does he even know that I'm close by?
Guy: We're in the hallway, always at half past nine.
Girl: Would he ever get to know me? Would he take the time?
[glow=brown]...Back in school they never taught us what we needed to know like how to deal with despair or someone breaking your heart...[/glow]
I actually just met up with my old best friend for the first time in years. It was so weird, we both obviously had so much to say, but just didn't say much. It was still fun, but we both changed so much. We just talked about memories we have. So it was really weird.
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ok, what's going on, i've heard that one like 406984069845908 times in the past week
my friend Zola told me that yesterday....i really found it quite amusing
!-¤M.a.r.i.s.s.a¤-! Guy: Her locker's down the hall, I've counted 17 from mine.
Girl: Does he see me? Does he even know that I'm close by?
Guy: We're in the hallway, always at half past nine.
Girl: Would he ever get to know me? Would he take the time?
[glow=brown]...Back in school they never taught us what we needed to know like how to deal with despair or someone breaking your heart...[/glow]
I went to some little Halloween party thing with my old best friend that i was tlaking about before. I've found out that it is really for me to talk to a group of people i don't know. When it is one or two people i don't know, I don't do too bad. The bad thing is, there were some kids from some of my classes who saw me kind of like alone. I think it would have been better if my friend knew everyone there and talked to them because i kind of just stuck around with him.
And back to the girl i think likes me - It's getting hard to figure out what i should do. I mean, i think she likes me, there have been a bunch of little hints, but now i don't know if i want her. I mean, if it weren't for her INCREDIBLE looks, i don't know how i would feel about her. She is clearly one of the hottest/most popular freshman girls at my school. But she can be very controlling and... let's say very 'girly'. Come of my friends think she is using me, but others think she likes me. So it's kind of all messed up. I mean it could be awesome to open up my dating career with this beauty, but it could be quite the opposite. There's also the whole experience thing. But i'm getting to feel that she wouldn't really care too much about that. Which is good.
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I talked to my old best friend, Jessica last night. And it was so awesome. I miss her, I really do. With my friends now, there is always emotion hanging over our heads, making our words prearranged and actions controlled, but she was just being genuinely exceptional toward me. I haven’t felt that in so long from one of my acquaintances I’m close with!
I also realized that I do not have a knack for picking friends to depend upon and trust. Not only have almost each and every one of my friends partially turned their backs on me, my best friend has decided it suitable and appropriate to go out with the guy that I have liked for such a prolonged period. Always aware of my feelings, she jumps instantly at the change to go out with him, not to mention be all over him in front of my face (for the second time) at the party I was at last night.
I have wanted to say it for so long, but I was afraid to because I thought I might go back on it. I HATE HER. There.
Don't go out with someone because they are exceptionally good looking and "clearly" popular. That's about as shallow as shallow goes. If you don't like her, don't go out with her. If you're not sure, as her on some dates and get to know her.
I, actually, wanted to comment on that as well. I know looks are important to guys, but honestly ... it shouldn't be all about that. If she's really scatter-brained, maybe she's not worth it? But, from personal experience, you will probably end up going out with her because she's pretty. No offence toward you, but ... yea.
Well, there's no need to pretend attractiveness isn't important. But it's not everything, and it seems to me that if you want to "open the door" to your dating career, you are using her as much as your friends think she might be using you. Maybe you two are good for eachother
Cass wrote:Well, there's no need to pretend attractiveness isn't important. But it's not everything, and it seems to me that if you want to "open the door" to your dating career, you are using her as much as your friends think she might be using you. Maybe you two are good for eachother
heh, exactly.
But she is also nice and all. She is athletic too, which i find to be a good quality. The only thing is that she's just the type of girl that will get what she wants which is kind of scary. I'd like to try things out with her, but i'd have to come up with a non-stupid way to ask her out. I'm a shy guy, so obviously asking her out would be some trouble for me. The first and only time i asked out a girl was in the cafeteria last year. Needless to say, i froze and EVERYONE in the cafeteria was watching me. Embarassment at it's highest. So, any suggestions on the best way to ask out a girl?
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