how do you score with chicks?

[Joey]

I don't like guys who can be easily whipped .. I need a challenge You're boring if you don't stand up to me .. my last bf and I would fight over stupid things cuz he always let me have my way ..

me: "where do you want to eat for dinner?"

him: "doesn't matter, you decide?"

me: "I decided last night, you pick tonight"

him: "wherever will make you happy"

me: "pick a goddamn restaurant!"

[areusad831]

what i did or picked was never good enough guess you just need to find the right girl.

[mosaik]

my take is this:

i think all people, regardless of gender, are most attracted to members of the opposite sex who are confident, driven, and in control of their lives. and here's why:

if a person like that, somebody who always gets what they want and never takes no and all that jazz is interested in you, then what does that say about you?

if the person you're with is not confident in themselves, then it reflects back on you as well.

that's why for me, i only want to commit to women who put themselves first and are individualistic in nature.

yeah.

[superboots]

I constantly do that with people in general.

Mom: when do you want me to pick you up.
Me: I dunno
Mom: seriously, when?
Me: what time is better for you?
Mom: when are you done with class?
Me: 10?
Mom: So..about 11?
Me: Is that easy for you?
Mom:
Me:

[mosaik]

totally know what you mean Joey. my ex was such a push over at times.

at the same time, i will never date some control-freak bitch who has to be in charge at all times. it's a fine line. i want somebody whose comfortable with themselves enough to let me be in charge when i need to be, and at the same time they can take control of a situation if it's not to thier liking.

i want somebody whose not afraid to walk away if the timing is wrong, too.

[areusad831]

you dont want that doug because then your opinion will usually never count for anything. A girl who is to assertive is big trouble.

[Joey]

I'm very easygoing .. but the guy I'm with has to be able to make a simple decision for us once in awhile otherwise it gets boring .. my mom makes fun of me saying I can wrap any guy around my finger Not my fault they don't stand up for themselves

[mosaik]

i like assertive girls. not aggressive ones.

pushy women turn me off, but so do wishy washy girls.

but since i'm not really in the market to find a mate right now, it doesn't matter.

[Johnny]

So..Is any one on this board in a stable relationship? or just looking to get some poontang like Mr. Doug Bin Laden?.........

[Joey]

[mosaik]

i'm in 3

[Johnny]

[thirdhour]

Ya Joey, I agree!

They have to have opinions based on their own beliefs and not what somebody told them. But, they also have to recognize what is really important to me and not worth fighting over.

Also: DON'T BE BORING!!!

(I hate boring guys)

quiet is okay, great actually, but boring=blah.

[Joey]

I love quiet guys Guys that actually read books now and then

[thirdhour]

smart=cool too!!!

[lora]

smart = so ridiculously sexy

[mosaik]

i read lots of books. lately they're all by Ayn Rand though.

[Joey]

I've always been attracted to guys that love to read .. but they're so hard to find

[superboots]

I fall for smart, geeky, sensitive and romantic guys.

mmmm..... *daydreams about perfect boyfriend*

[Johnny]

I've read only like four books in my life.