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Posted: 6/19/2003, 11:39 am
We'd also like to know.
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Posted: 6/19/2003, 11:41 am
Posted: 6/19/2003, 11:43 am
heh, i used to think about this a lot.
i think they go hand in hand. you can get the physical attraction thing going on, and inquire about their mind, and get nothing stimulating.
but then, you can get the emotional/intelligence/whatever thing going on, and not seem to be attracted to the guy in a physical way. however, chances are, it will develop if you're into his personality. yeah.
anyway, brains tend to be more important.
i think they go hand in hand. you can get the physical attraction thing going on, and inquire about their mind, and get nothing stimulating.
but then, you can get the emotional/intelligence/whatever thing going on, and not seem to be attracted to the guy in a physical way. however, chances are, it will develop if you're into his personality. yeah.
anyway, brains tend to be more important.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 11:43 am
Personality does it for me.
A nice smile doesn't hurt, though.
A nice smile doesn't hurt, though.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 11:45 am
personality.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 11:49 am
defiantly personality but i have to be attracted to the guy as well
Posted: 6/19/2003, 11:51 am
carnival_7 wrote:defiantly personality but i have to attracted to the guy as well
i agree.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 12:02 pm
if a guy has a great personality i will find him hot. its that simple. hotness is really a variable. theres no set way to how i want a guy to look.
if he's a really cool guy, chances are i'll find him attractive. actually, the biggest thing: how he hugs :mgreen:
if he's a really cool guy, chances are i'll find him attractive. actually, the biggest thing: how he hugs :mgreen:
Posted: 6/19/2003, 12:35 pm
a great personality is what gets me
Posted: 6/19/2003, 12:40 pm
Personality is always important to me. If he's hot but he's a jerk...I dont like him anymore. Looks are great, but personality has to be there to.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 12:43 pm
It's usually looks that first draw you to a person, but it's the personality that makes you stay with that person.
I went out with this one guy, who was this really gorgeous blond haired blue eyed man who had absolutely no personality. I broke up with him in like four days even though my friends were like "He's so
"
So I guess, I would admit that looks are somewhat important to me, but personality is more important.
I went out with this one guy, who was this really gorgeous blond haired blue eyed man who had absolutely no personality. I broke up with him in like four days even though my friends were like "He's so
"
So I guess, I would admit that looks are somewhat important to me, but personality is more important.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 12:56 pm
My last boyfriend was very very skinny, like a crackhead or something. But, he had ice blue eyes, a great smile and a cute personality. That made him hot in my opinion.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 12:58 pm
So, who said arms, but won't speak up?
Posted: 6/19/2003, 2:02 pm
me.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 2:15 pm
Way to be a girl. 
Posted: 6/19/2003, 2:19 pm
Posted: 6/19/2003, 2:48 pm
personality, hands down. i find it really hard to be attracted to someone i don't know or don't really find to be an interesting person, even if i would otherwise consider him attractive. also, maybe this is the right place to say this, but i really don't get this defined image of "hot" boys. really, i don't. it seems to me that what i find attractive is NOTHING like what the general consensus seems to be. ie, male models, they don't do a damn thing for me. but anyway, if i like being around you, you will probably make it into my hot book
Posted: 6/19/2003, 3:12 pm
I've found that if you love a guy's personality first, the good looks and everything come around after.
Posted: 6/19/2003, 3:13 pm
me too.Posted: 6/19/2003, 4:00 pm
Right. Because women go out hunting for dogs like me and say, "I should go talk to him, because no matter how ugly he is, he has to have a great personality that makes him a beautiful person." And I am Jesus.