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Ok,

so my to of my friends have been dating for 2 years. But they've broken up twice and now they're going to break up again probably because she really can't take the guy anymore. Last time they broke up temporaily i me and his girl friend got really drunk at the bar and accidently got dirty together on the floor. So now they just got in another huge fight, and she's been telling me for awile now that they're over, and i think tonight was the final straw.

My problem is she's coming onto me hardcore again, and i really don't know whether it's ok for me to do anything with her, even if they break up. What do you guys think? Is it ok to date or fool around with your friends ex?

We were at Houston's (the bar) tonight and she was trying really hard to get me, even groping me, and asked if she coudl sleep at my house for the night, and i should add she's actually a pretty hot girl, think tall avril lavigne.

any advice?

aww, doggy.

I'd say don't go for her right now if it means jeopardizing your friendship. It will be easier if he and her break up and there isn't bad blood between them. If they're cool with each other and can still remain friends, then there's a way better chance that you won't affect your friendship with him if you do decide to date her. He might say he's cool with it also, but even if he does say it, he doesn't really mean it. It just means that if they're cool with each other, you probably won't ruin your friendship with him if you do decide to go with her.

hmmm i doubt they'll be on good terms after the break up. And i don't even know if she wants me as a boyfriend, i think i might just be her sexy man whore.

but serioulsy i'm confused

Well then decide what you want more, your friendship or the woman

Oh, but don't decide tonight. Wait until you're sober.

good idea, i'm way to drunk to even understand everything going on. On the bright side i managed to get out of her staying at my house, which only coudl have ended in disaster.

And they're both my friends which is weird, because i don't know whether i coudl even date a close friend, let alone my friends ex

although to be honest i'm not really that close with my old friends anymore

Call up a bunch of women and have an orgy.

that's the best idea i've heard in ages!

We could solve most theowrld problems through a massive love orgy!.....well other then sexually transmitted problems

*leaves thread*

was it the orgy?

i think so

btw i think lando's suggestions were the best
and i also agree with dom's post wholeheartedly
yer pup is cute

well your friends not going to suck your dick
or atleast i hope not

but... she will, and you say shes hot

so where's the hard decision to make?

She's probably coming onto you because she A) Is on the total and complete rebound and B) Knows it will piss off her ex, so it has an element of vengeance.

Time will tell if she has valid feelings for you, but i'd wait, until they've sorted things out and they've been off for atleast a month or two.

i like my idea

Wait until they've both had some time to work through it. Like Sinead said she is most likely on the rebound and looking for revenge. If she really has feelings for you then she'll still have them in a few months. Also let your friend get over her too. It would really hurt him to break up with her and then see his friend with her so soon. It's best to wait.

I AM ME wrote:although to be honest i'm not really that close with my old friends anymore

look, hes not even really friends with him
just do her

My good friend Joe (i don't know why i'm telling you his name) once said something very cruedly that i think may help you in this situation: "Bro's before Hoe's"

you gotta support your friend, and let him know about what's happening regardless of how close you are with him. if he acts like an ass....go for her, if he takes it well then step back.

he already said the guy isnt even his friend anymore