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committed · Post by **committed** » 1/12/2003, 4:16 pm

that's not true.

sometimes, i just don't see marriage happening to me.

superrgirll · Post by **superrgirll** » 1/12/2003, 4:19 pm

areusad831 · Post by **areusad831** » 1/12/2003, 4:20 pm

Joey · Post by **Joey** » 1/12/2003, 4:23 pm

ohh not this again :neutral:

committed · Post by **committed** » 1/12/2003, 4:24 pm

i invite you to prove me wrong

starseed_10 · Post by **starseed_10** » 1/12/2003, 5:15 pm

once again: oh no not this again :neutral:

committed · Post by **committed** » 1/12/2003, 5:23 pm

oh no this is not for me

Starseed3333 · Post by **Starseed3333** » 1/12/2003, 7:35 pm

Marriage is just a title. I'm not going to get married. Even on the off chance that I find a really great guy, I still won't marry him.

Just like high school and "going out". Ya know.........it should just be about chilling and having fun. So much stress is put on those stupid titles. All marriage really is is a chance for divorce, and other people to screw you over.

Sufjan Stevens · Post by **Sufjan Stevens** » 1/12/2003, 7:36 pm

Looks like some one wants to be childless.

Joey · Post by **Joey** » 1/12/2003, 9:05 pm

I think marriage is more than just a title .. but then again I had wonderful parents who had a happy soul-mate sort of marriage so I have nothing but good thoughts about marriage. It's about 2 people uniting in their love, forming a pact to be together forever and possibly creating a family .. divorce happens cuz people:

A. Get married too soon or too young
B. Get married for all the wrong reasons to begin with
C. Don't truly love the person they married

Take my best friend for example .. they got married in August .. by September they had a brief separation. They were highschool sweethearts, neither dating much before getting together .. that's their problem .. they didn't get to experience the whole dating scene or have fun with it .. they were too serious too soon and they got married too soon .. if people took the 'happily ever after till death do us part' a little more seriously then marriages wouldn't be so fucked up today.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/12/2003, 9:13 pm

keep in mind that people also change, and sometimes with time the changes made by each individual render them incompatible with the other.

Joey · Post by **Joey** » 1/12/2003, 9:17 pm

People adapt to change and marriage is about accepting each other's faults and growing up/changing together .. if you change THAT drastically that the other person can't deal with you anymore .. well, that's just messed up to begin with :lol:

committed · Post by **committed** » 1/12/2003, 9:49 pm

change is stupid

jeff steffens: staying the same since 1984

Joey · Post by **Joey** » 1/12/2003, 9:51 pm

Sometimes change can be good .. it would suck if things never changed .. that'd get boring

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/12/2003, 9:51 pm

jeffens

committed · Post by **committed** » 1/12/2003, 9:52 pm

if it's not broke, don't fix it.

simplicity, people.

fucking christ.

Joey · Post by **Joey** » 1/12/2003, 9:53 pm

trust me, it's broke alright

the android · Post by **the android** » 1/12/2003, 10:01 pm

I don't wanna get married. Marriage does not equal happiness. SOme people are just as happy just living together without being married, and if I ever do find someone that I trust enough to stay with, I'm NOT marrying them. I'll stay with them, but I'm not gunna get married.

Marriage seems too corny to me. It used to mean a lot, but now the word "marriage" has lost it's effect. Because now, when people get married, you force yourself to be happy for them and you think "Aww, how sweet" and you trick yourself into believing that they'll be happy.

And then they get a divorce, and you just shrug it off because deep down, you always knew it would happen.

People misuse the word "love", and "soulmate".

Like Jeniffer Lopez. She's on her third soulmate now, and chances are that won't work out either.

My brother thinks I'm being judgemental. Maybe. It's hard not to be.

[/rambling]

committed · Post by **committed** » 1/12/2003, 10:03 pm

what's broke?

Joey · Post by **Joey** » 1/12/2003, 10:09 pm

People do misuse the word love .. I'll agree with that. It's lost all meaning these days. I do believe in soulmates though .. marriage isn't really supposed to equal happiness. That's the problem, people get married because they think that will solve all their problems .. I'm in no hurry to get married .. but one day I hope to find someone who I actually want to spend the rest of my life with.