gravity wrote:breast cancer (hell, any cancer) is a scary thing. my mom got her breast cancer as my grandfather got over cancer in his bladder. odd timing...i know cancer runs in my family (especially now, its right in front of me). and i have to look out for heart disease...im so scared of pain though....im scared of my future....lets just hope ray kurzweil is right and by the time im sick i can inject robots into my bloodstream and be better.
You have to try and live your life not in fear. Not everone gets sick. I know what you are going through. Cancer runs in my family.I have lost my parents, grandma's, and uncles to different cancers, plus two friends. Luckily none of us have had it(my brothers, sister, and I). I do worry also. I did have a small scare a few years ago, but luckily It wasn't. I have no control over if I get sick or not. None of us do. We just try to live as healthy a life as we can.. Even though people are still getting sick. Look at how far medicine has come.. Cancer isn't always a death sentence anymore.. I think the fact people are catching it earlier is a big reasaon why people are beating this disease.. YEAH..
YOu just have to be strong for them and try to make things as normal as possible. My dad/uncle didn't want us fussing over them. They wanted to just live as normal life as possible. Although both were extremely sick..
Unfortunately we have no control over what we get or don't get. All we can do is try to live as healthy a life as possible.. You can take percaution, but try to enjoy your life... It is the most precious thing any of us have..