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J-Neli wrote:For me it's because a lot of guys are cocky assholes who think with their dicks. I dunno I've just always got along better with girls.

hah, there are plenty of those guys around here. therefore i have like 5 guy friends in total.

Better than me. I have like, three. Two of them go out with friends and the other is gay.

I'll be your friend!


Please? I'm so alone

Seeings how you're across the universe, it might be difficult.

One cannot be across the universe, because there is no end or beginning to the universe

Tell that to him

Thomas, there is no beginning or end to the universe and Andrea refuses to befriend you because you refuse to shower.

yeah man, personal hygiene is quite the thing these days. get with it.

show...er?

Do you mean show her?

Show her what?

she doesn't want to see anything of yours and never will because you're freakin filthy!

i get along better with guys. i just find so many girls to be caty (sp?).

phantasmagoria wrote:yeah man, personal hygiene is quite the thing these days. get with it.

cuz of the flooding, they've asked that we stop washing dishes, doing laundry...and if we must shower to keep it under 5 mins. !!

stink city!!!

I think with my dick.

Well, getting back on topic -

I wouldn;t mind being asked out, I personally find it flattering. I'm sure a lot of guys, in fact most of the ones I know would prefer that (and I'm kind of speaking from a socially-inept crowd, so that isn't saying much). I mean, I know it takes guts in some cases to just go up and ask someone out, and I'd find that admirable in someone. it speaks to their self-confidence, which I think we'd all agree is a positive quality.

I'm not sure how people just don't do it. It's easy. It doesn't necessarily suggest anything further than going out somewhere with someone - I ask people out all the time to go places (don't think too far into that).

The problem is guys versus girls. if a guy asks a girl out, a girl would see it, and correct me if im wrong, one of two ways - "oh, what a nice gesture, that sounds like a good time" OR "this guy wants 'something' from me". however, if a girl asks a guy out, i guarantee you that 9 times out of 10, the guy is thinking "hah, this girl wants 'something' from me" - and i think therein lies the reason that its not very common that girls ask guys out. unless a girl specifically lays out some ground rules for the guy, that's what he's gonna think.

ps i have this horrible habit of stream-of-consciousness writing, so forgive me if that made little sense.

No, I can see that. Girls usually think "That sounds like fun, I might as well give it a shot". But I can see a guy just thinking "This girl is totally in love with me...how _________".

Monkey wrote:(and I'm kind of speaking from a socially-inept crowd, so that isn't saying much)

The man speaks the truth.

Oy.

nikki4982 wrote:The man speaks the truth.

Oy.

God don't remind me. I'd never be able to bring a girl home if I didnt have Nikki.

For those of you not on the same page, my roommates & friends are complete nerds/fanboys. Ugh.

Cool.

All of my friends are socially inept as well. I don't even know how we communicate. Or how we became friends. Because I was socially inept before that ...

Lovely!