Love & Relationships Thread

gokirk72 · Post by **gokirk72** » 9/17/2005, 12:27 pm

Just to let anyone in, I'm going to ask this one girl out that I really like this week, and I have a really good feeling... I asked her out back in April but she broke up with me 3 days later, but I took a lot of bad advice (since she was the only girl I ever asked out), and I wanted to explain all this to her, and how, like over the past 5 months, I haven't been able to stop thinking about her, let alone all the year or so before I ever asked her out the first time... everything's different when she's anywhere near me, it feels different when I talk to her than with anyone else, if I see her anywhere I can't look away from her, I'll hear like a random song and I think of her, I kept thinking I saw her in random places... even if the people there looked nothing like her.. I'll post up on here what she says (or if I say nothing, that means no, but surely I'll say something if it's a yes)...

Just to let anyone else know, she was the girl that I mentioned in the other post the "female body image" one that everyone made fun of cuz she's only like 4'10" tall, but yea, I can't think straight now, I just can't wait to go back to school, I know she likes me too, which is why I'm like, yea, ya know, waiting, for school.. to start back up, on monday, lol..

pit_girl1 · Post by **pit_girl1** » 9/17/2005, 12:55 pm

Good luck!!!!!!!!!!

My boyfriend and I had been together for about 2 3/4 years, but as he was graduating high school this past spring he kinda went through a period of strange isolated-ness and he broke up with me...that made the summer really rough, especially as I saw him getting back to being himself again. But last week he told me he wanted me back, so we got back together, and I am so ridiculously excited about it all. I'm hoping he's gonna be able to come up and visit me in 2 weeks (we go to diff. colleges).

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 9/17/2005, 1:34 pm

I think I like someone. I hate it.

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 9/18/2005, 5:26 pm

weren't you going to stop doing that? tisk tisk, cassie!

Henrietta · Post by **Henrietta** » 9/18/2005, 10:43 pm

Yes I was. And yet I keep doing it.

gokirk72 · Post by **gokirk72** » 9/19/2005, 2:07 pm

And to let everyone know, I asked her back out today, and she said yes, but no.. since her ex that she was going out with over the summer won't leave her alone and like showed up at her house the other day.. but she said as soon as he gets the point (or she makes him get the point) she'll go out with me.. so I'm like, so happy

(but still too lazy to use anything but the quick reply... lol)

superrgirll · Post by **superrgirll** » 9/19/2005, 2:20 pm

or, it could have been an excuse. us girls like to give boys lame excuses. sad, but true.

Dr. Hobo · Post by **Dr. Hobo** » 9/19/2005, 2:25 pm

its true!
once i got this:

"im sorry sand... i mean you're great guy and all and i'd love to go out with you... but well.. im a wall"

me: :cry:

dream in japanese · Post by **dream in japanese** » 9/19/2005, 2:44 pm

maybe you need to stop dating walls? :freak:

gokirk72 · Post by **gokirk72** » 9/19/2005, 3:14 pm

I believe her, mainly cuz we did keep in touch, and even her friends have told me that this guy is an asshole.. so I don't think it's an excuse (then again, only she knows for real...), but I believe her

xoNoDoubt69 · Post by **xoNoDoubt69** » 9/19/2005, 4:42 pm

i always get the same lame excuse from boys :cry:

superrgirll · Post by **superrgirll** » 9/19/2005, 4:53 pm

but us girls, we love the asshole guys too. :nod:

sad, but true.

Tattooed Angels · Post by **Tattooed Angels** » 9/19/2005, 5:16 pm

superrgirll wrote:but us girls, we love the asshole guys too. sad, but true.

You know unfortunately it doesn't get much better when you get older.. Relationships are so hard esp when one person is more giving then the other. It is rarely an equal thing.. One word of advice someone told me is to have the guy like/love you more then you do him..

I will tell you this though. It came from the movie Some Kind Of Wonderful "It is better to be alone for the right resaons then with someone for the wrong" I totally agree. I rather be alone then with somene who is going to treat me like Crap..

Sand that is bad.. But you know girls can be as heartless as guys are sometimes.

What I can't understand is why it seems that Bitchy girls always seem to get the great guys.. What is up with that? Gentlemen, can you explain that to me.

Cass I am feeling it with you.. there was this guy I really liked at the location I use to work at. I just could never really let him know.. I can joke with some guys( usually ones I don't like in any romantic way) but as soon I am around someone I am into I get shy/scared..

gokirk72 · Post by **gokirk72** » 9/19/2005, 5:25 pm

Tattooed Angels wrote:What I can't understand is why it seems that Bitchy girls always seem to get the great guys.. What is up with that? Gentlemen, can you explain that to me.

To be serious, I have no idea why that is either, that happens a lot with some of my friends, they'll go after these BITCHES when they deserve to go after the girls who are kind and nice and all that.. but, most of my friends seem to have figured it out.. but I don't get why they go after who they go after either...

Tattooed Angels · Post by **Tattooed Angels** » 9/19/2005, 5:37 pm

gokirk72 wrote:
Tattooed Angels wrote:What I can't understand is why it seems that Bitchy girls always seem to get the great guys.. What is up with that? Gentlemen, can you explain that to me.

To be serious, I have no idea why that is either, that happens a lot with some of my friends, they'll go after these BITCHES when they deserve to go after the girls who are kind and nice and all that.. but, most of my friends seem to have figured it out.. but I don't get why they go after who they go after either...

see at elast someone else sees it. I am not saying be nice and sweet all the time. Hell we all have good and bad days,but it seems these girls always get the guy..

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 9/19/2005, 5:43 pm

The bitchy girls are usually the popular girls. The popular kids usually get everything, including the boys/girls. Perhaps this essence of popularity does not leave after highschool.

Tattooed Angels · Post by **Tattooed Angels** » 9/19/2005, 5:52 pm

Rusty wrote:The bitchy girls are usually the popular girls. The popular kids usually get everything, including the boys/girls. Perhaps this essence of popularity does not leave after highschool.

that isn;t necessarily true, mostly, bu tnot. Did you ever see the movie Never Kissed.. Drew Barrymore has to go back to high school in her 20's for a news paper report. There is one part where she says those girls are stil theere..

Funny thing is alot of the popular kids at my high school were actually very nice..

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 9/19/2005, 6:13 pm

Never did see that movie actually. Any good? A few of the popular kids are nice I guess, but I can't really tell, I think almost everything anyone says to me is a shot of some kind. *has issues*

don't ask why · Post by **don't ask why** » 9/19/2005, 6:32 pm

Gotta just keep soldiering on.

closeyoureyes · Post by **closeyoureyes** » 9/19/2005, 8:10 pm

If you think the popular girls are mean to the "unpopular" kids, imagine being in their circle.

Nightmare.