Posted: 1/26/2005, 7:07 pm
if it was a one time deal I'm sure it would be awkward... if you guys were "buddies" who did this on occasion it would become normal.
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Posted: 1/26/2005, 7:19 pm
Are you sure? That doesn't sound like it would be normal
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:15 pm
Here's what you do: Next time you're all snuggly with him, reach under and run your fingers up his leg, and give him a wink and one of those flirtatious little name things with a smile "like hey tiger" for example. Then 1 of two things will happen. 1. He will recoil in horror because he is gay. or 2. He might be intrigued and play along then as that continuos kiss him. Then judge his reaction. If he feels weird, apoligise and say it was a momentary thing you just got a little out of it for a moment. If he kisses you back then you get what you wanted.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:18 pm
Alex its okay actually. And like, friends with benefits can turn into an actual relationship too. Or it can just be fun 
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:19 pm
...or he may recoil in horror just because 'hey tiger' is the scariest line. ever.
but wait. this is your cat, no?
it may make him feel more manly.
ok, take rusty's advice.
but wait. this is your cat, no?
it may make him feel more manly.
ok, take rusty's advice.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:26 pm
Thats right.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:29 pm
Your other option is to tell him to whistle and if he can't whistle he has to have sex with you. Then just before he whistles grab his nuts.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:29 pm
dear alexxx,
friends with benefits was practically invented in oak bay.
it'll be awesomie.
love,
sinead
friends with benefits was practically invented in oak bay.
it'll be awesomie.
love,
sinead
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:41 pm
Rusty wrote:Your other option is to tell him to whistle and if he can't whistle he has to have sex with you. Then just before he whistles grab his nuts.
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I HATE YOU SO MUCH.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:44 pm
may i ask, why don't you want a relationship with him?
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:44 pm
Rusty, I think you need to go back to the school of Reno for a few more lessons. You're not quite done.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:46 pm
This is true. Where is Reno anyway?
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:47 pm
Probably out thinking he's Rico Suave.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:48 pm
he if likes to get together with you then he'll have sex with you for sure
guys dont say "hey i could really just use a female friend and no i dont want any sex"
guys dont say "hey i could really just use a female friend and no i dont want any sex"
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:49 pm
Well this doesn't help me at all. Valentines day is coming and I am no closer to asking this girl out.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:49 pm
then ask her to have sex
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:51 pm
I agree. Best advice all night.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:53 pm
Gimme_Shelter wrote:then ask her to have sex
Man even Lando's advice of slapping her in the ass and having her beat the shit out of me is better than that.
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:55 pm
RUSTY JUST GROW SOME NUTS AND DO IT ALREADY!
Posted: 1/26/2005, 9:56 pm
Cass' advice was good...