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I was just listening to Forever the other day :drool:
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my advice

don't treat it like a date

just say you're haning out

three girls in a row i've been like hey let's hang out

four actually

and twice there was making out

the other two was within the first three haning outs

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ok... so now, what does it mean. I asked her out and she said "i don't know"... someone please tell me...
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Just reassure her it's not an actual "I'm serious, let's go out and make babies" kind of deal. Get to know her, but try not to jump on her at first. Let her believe that you're trying to be her friend and getting to know her, then kiss her. After a few times of seeing you, she should know what you're like, and if she likes you, then you're fine.
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yeah she kissed me last night... i was happy...
but i know what you mean... but i don't wanna make babies anyway... i'm all like 14... she knows i like her... she was the 2nd one to know, nonetheless... she's awesome though... thanks
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Well, if she kissed you, keep hanging out with her. See what happens. Right now, you've got nothing to lose. Get to know each other, make out with her, have a great time. Things should work out.
I faced death. I went in with my arms swinging. But I heard my own breath and had to face that I'm still living. I'm still flesh. I hold on to awful feelings. I'm not dead... My chest still draws breath. I hold it. I'm buoyant. There's no end.
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sandsleeper wrote:don't talk about yourself the whole time. and don't ever EVER EVER say the word "Fucktard."


:lol::lol::lol:

Do you speak from experience, Kimmy?

Anyway, definitely stick to being yourself. Try not to worry about impressing her so much, but make sure she's not having a bad time. :)
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here's what you do. first you hit the drugstore to pick up a few "dating supplements" and a 351ml can of coke. You then add aforementioned supplements to the coke. then you pick up the girl.

get her to drink the coke. then take her someplace soft. when she passes out, flip her over and slip her the benson. then wash up and act like nothing happened. when she wakes, tell her you were just watching her sleep and she must have dozed off because it's so nice wherever you are.

foolproof. it's how all my dates go.
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don't call it a date or say you like her, she'll change her mind. :roll: :lol:
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she knows i like her already. And I always have an awesome time with her... even though i don't get much chance to hang out with her... but Last night and Monday were both awesome.
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psst... you quoted the white stripes incorrectly... it's "hold me back" bud. ;)
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yeah well i screwed it up... back to me now...
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thats a good tip... i'll remember that
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lol oh man... evidence to my airhedness: posting in the wrong thread!! :lol: :freak: :freak:
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:lol:

i do that all the time when i have a bunch of windows open and im not sure which one it is im posting in. thank god for the edit button! :nod:
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yes. thank god for that "delete" button. :evil:
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i curse at not being able to delete after someone has seen it! :evil:
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Post by liam »

no fun... well i guess tahts it for the "to do when dating" thread, now that everythings all gone fucked up and shit... oh well i'll have more questions later
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Wow, the kid that has spammed every single thread he's posted in is mad about some one spamming his thread. Oh how the tables have turned young one.
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you have a point.
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