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Posted: 1/14/2006, 1:27 pm
by Soozy
Well, I know I've seen a few cases of that kind of things in the news. Maybe he did too and got the idea from that. But we really have no way of knowing.
Posted: 1/14/2006, 1:58 pm
by beautiful liar
closeyoureyes wrote:Kathy14 wrote: Was his plan to get shot by police after pretending to have a weapon at school??
No Way. Theres no way a 15 yearold boy is that smart and planned.
yes there is. whether it's the truth or not is a different story, but at 15 you're definitely smart enough to figure out that kind of stuff.
sad truth is, when i was that age, i had planned something of the sort.
Posted: 1/14/2006, 2:36 pm
by Johnny
closeyoureyes wrote:Kathy14 wrote: Was his plan to get shot by police after pretending to have a weapon at school??
No Way. Theres no way a 15 yearold boy is that smart and planned.
That is completely untrue. A 15 year old teenage boy is more than capable of planning an event like that out.
Posted: 1/14/2006, 2:38 pm
by Kathy
oh no, I just read a report that the kid has died from his injuries.
And Claire... *hugs*
Posted: 1/14/2006, 3:23 pm
by Soozy
*more hugs for Claire*
Posted: 1/14/2006, 4:22 pm
by afealicious
Chanandler Bong wrote:closeyoureyes wrote:Kathy14 wrote: Was his plan to get shot by police after pretending to have a weapon at school??
No Way. Theres no way a 15 yearold boy is that smart and planned.
That is completely untrue. A 15 year old teenage boy is more than capable of planning an event like that out.
:sadyes::sadyes:
*also hugs claire*
Posted: 1/14/2006, 6:38 pm
by beautiful liar
thanks for your hugs folks *hugs back*
it's too bad the kid died. it's horrible that some people never realize that the torment of adolescence ends. school sucks, teachers suck, your peers suck, and everything hurts...jr high/high school is a black hole of angst and anger. you have to deal with bullies and misunderstanding coming from all angles - parents, school, media....things are all distorted.
if you wait it out, you grow stronger; but sometimes it seems impossible. and then something like this just seems to make so much sense. i feel for this boy; at the same time, the police did what they had to do.
Posted: 1/14/2006, 6:45 pm
by Kathy
I wonder if his parents knew what he was going through. My parents never had a clue how depressed I was at that age and what I was dealing with.
Posted: 1/14/2006, 6:52 pm
by beautiful liar
same. parents are often estranged by their children at that time. and sometimes vice versa. it's impossible to read into their relationship based on this - there are always so many possible factors.
Posted: 1/15/2006, 8:48 am
by Kathy
<i>The parents of a 15-year-old boy accused of terrorizing classmates with a pistol warned authorities the weapon likely was fake before police shot him in a middle school bathroom, a family attorney said Saturday. "
The boy's parents, Ralph and Donna Penley, were in contact with authorities during the incident and told them they believed Penley did not have a real gun, Nation said. Ralph Penley went to the school to attempt to talk his son out of the situation.
"When he got to the school, they would not let him in and he was later told Christopher had been shot," Nation said. </i>
Not sure why I'm such a news junkie lately... the last few weeks I've spent hours each day watching or reading the news. I gotta stop....
Posted: 1/15/2006, 5:31 pm
by thirdhour
Kathy14 wrote:He said he wanted to die that day... but he obviously wasn't going to kill himself. Was his plan to get shot by police after pretending to have a weapon at school??
I wrote a short story about that just a few months ago...creepy.
Now, I don't know at all, and I'm just jumping to conclusions...but here are two possibilities:
The kid was 15, but in grade 8. That makes him two years too old to be in that grade (assumably...of course, his birthday could be january and he could have been put in kindergarten a year late). Therefore, I'll assume he's either socially/emotionally immature, or just struggled alot in school. Kids who are socially immature tend to do things without thinking of the consequances, or don't truly comprehend them. Though they feel strongly about something at the moment, they might not be able to see other options or realize that they might change how they feel in the future.
If a kid that already has emotional problems has problems in school or struggles alot with schoolwork, this could aggrevate the problems further, because of always feeling frustrated or being made fun of by other kids for being 'stupid'. He might have felt powerless and felt that doing something this drastic would gain him some respect among other kids or make them feel bad about making fun of him.
Just a few ideas of what might make someone that young do something like that.