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i think i will if i still have your address!

SCORE!

Dom I still have to give you your rock.

Giraffe is rightfully mine since i created the thread, then it goes to al and lando cuz theyre "up there". BUt i'll prolly give it to nikki cuz shes cooler than Al, at least. Lando.. well hes cool but... nikkis pretty damn cool AND nice... welll... hmm.l.. its a tie. Cut the giraffe in two pieces.

I'm sorry.

It'll be painless.

WHAT?! i am the owner of all things giraffe!

Oh. Well, ok then.

Yanno Jim i just settled for sucking on a can of cheese wiz LOL there are parents home and they wouldnt wanna see a drunk sarah no no

...I have some cheese whiz....you know....if you're interested.

LOL! i thought we brought this back to rated G


and besides the bang resulted in a pagebaby. You dont wanna be no deadbead daddeh.

wait... nevermind.

Don't worry we'll be fine. Besides this board can handle a pg13 rating at least I'll pay child support.

Cool, so you want the kids too?


*drops them off at ur place and LEAVES*

Yeah even Reza's two babies.

Ciao baby!

This was before you left me for another. *gives children up for adoption, watches as nikki adopts them* Adopted by a sea monster who already has a million kids of her own.

Jim likes to give advice. Very logical advice. You might not like it. I think that's what he was refering to.

i kinow exactly what you're talking =about

i start shaking and gripping my arms
and it really sucks
cause i know i'm aout to spend an hour shaking and crying and losing it
but there's nthing i can do about it



UFCKING LFE

Cass wrote:Jim likes to give advice. Very logical advice. You might not like it. I think that's what he was refering to.

thanks Cass, that's exactly what I was referring to. Unfortunately it tends to start fights and gets misinterpreted as me being a heartless asshole.

maybe cause it's all logic and no heart

i invented freaking out

happeningfish wrote:maybe cause it's all logic and no heart

The thing is I understand the emotional aspect but in a lot of cases there is too much melodrama. In my opinion people, especially teenagers tend to glorify their problems to make them sound like no one else is going through them and that "no one understands me." People would be so much happier I think if they looked at things more logically and rationally. I know that that's a difficult thing to do sometimes when you're at the centre of it all, but I know that if I'm ever in a tough situation I try and step back from it and look at it from a 3rd person perspective. I find that 1. it keeps me sane, 2. I come to understand a lot more about why things happen instead of just focusing on what is actually happening, and 3. I am able to solve things quicker and come to terms with things quicker and easier.

This isn't a post to toot my own horn saying I'm better at handling things than others. It's my opinion that anyone and everyone is strong enough to have a handle on their life. Obviously there are some circumstances you can't control, like someone close you dying or suddenly becoming ill with cancer or another disease. I just have a strong belief that people should try to come up with ways of solving problems better and more efficiently. Cutting and drinking only make things worse, and (remember this is only my opinion, shit on me if you like) should never be an answer to any problem. To me it is selfish and an insult to family and friends that you would rather do harm to yourself than talk to them about any problems.

I know what I just said will piss off some people (as it has in the past). I won't be on much this weekend as I'll be gone away for job interviews so if you're mad and expect a quick response, sorry I can't provide one.

It's a good theory, but hard to follow through.

I have panic attacks too, I start crying uncontrollably and then it's like I can't breath and crap. I totally flip out. But I don't get them too often anymore. When stuff like that happens to me I try to step back and say Cassie, is it really that bad? Are there other people in the world who would love to be in your position. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. But it does guilt me out of being selfish once in a while.