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Post by nikki4982 »

It's still a matter of respect.

Is it really worth hurting someone you used to be good friends with just so you can get laid?

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Post by Gimme_Shelter »

why would he be hurt if he doesnt even know the guy anymore

"oh i broke up wit her now nobody should ever fuck her again"

thats what he would have to be thinking to get pissed, im pretty sure thats not what he's thinking



my point is, stop being a baby and just do her
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i still wouldn't do it, no matter how close you are with the person without talking to him first.... hopefully you don't get punched in the face
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speaking from expirience, i can tell you that hooking up with this chick is gonna piss your friend off. he might say go for it and that he doesn't care, but he's a godamn liar. (during my wild years) i started talking to my friends chick the day before they broke up and then a week later we were all over each other. so she called him on three way and i stayed quiet and he was pissed and making up shit about me while i was on the phone with them. then like an hour later he comes by the house like nothing happened.

anyhow, the moral here is that were still good friends. yeah he's gonna be pissed and if he's unstable he'll want to kick your ass, but if he's rational, he'll be pissed underneath but not let it overcome him. so basically it's all on the guy man, if you know he's gonna hunt you down and kill your dog for doing his ex, then stay clear, if he's gonna pretend to be cool about it and still be a little upset, then go for it man. me and that guy are still cool.
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Post by Lando »

exactly. that's why i said choose between the girl or your friend. In pretty much every single situation if you were to ask a friend if you can date their ex, even if they say yes, they're going to be pissed or not really up for the idea.

If you're not good friends with the guy and he's a jackhole and you have nothing to fear, no dogs or rabbits or little fuzzy animals that are easy to kill, then it just depends on what you want more, the girl or your friendship.

Of course if you were good friends with the guy, or he's been a loyal friend, it doesn't say much about you if you were to fuck that friendship up over some girl.
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Post by Gimme_Shelter »

like he said, the guy isnt even his friend

if he was then its a different story


but since he isnt then who cares
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hmmm you do make a good point. But I think gandhi would care.
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Gandhi would do her also
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but Ghandi is a girlfriend stealing bastard.
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gonna leave 'em all just like before, i'm big city bound, your always 17 in your hometown
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Ask yourself the same question Diffman asked himself: "What would Jesus do?"
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Bandalero wrote:but Ghandi is a girlfriend stealing bastard.




but he got laid didnt he

you know he did it all for the chicks
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Not just the chicks. He did it to get famous too. Everyone knows that.
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:lol:

wow i was wasted that night. I didn't do anthing with her. I would also like to stress that shes my friend aswell, people seem to think she's just my friend's girlfriend, we weere friends before they dated and had a fling. As far as my male friend, i think he'd be like Lando said angry on the inside but cool on the outside. I'm, off course, not planning to do anything right after they break up, but i might try something later.

Hell my best friend is dating my ex, and they started dating like 2 weeks after we broke up. It didn't start as anything serious, but now 2 years later i seriously am positive that they're getting married. They even dsignated me bestman, and god parent.......although can i be a god parent and not be a christian?
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That depends. Are you actually god? or a parent?

If so, then yes.
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several women have called me "god" and also "daddy" so does that count?

:P
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"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911

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I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.

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I'm gonna have to go with yes, because obviously you're being asked to be a godparent, so the girl who asked must have used these names with you before.
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:lol: :lol:

it's funny because i actually dated her
"How can we justify spending so much on destruction and so little on life?" Matthew Good

"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911

"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good

I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.

"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
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I figured, since you called her your ex.
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makes sence
"How can we justify spending so much on destruction and so little on life?" Matthew Good

"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911

"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good

I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.

"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
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