a question for boys

nelison · Post by **nelison** » 1/26/2005, 12:58 pm

ya one person has to make a move. It doesn't have to be take his virginity though lol just don't be so subtle about things.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/26/2005, 1:02 pm

i love how you've come to the consensus that he's a virgin :lol:

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 1/26/2005, 3:23 pm

happeningfish wrote:For some reason, your species is completely unintelligible to me (Cf. Bethany's sig). Could I maybe have some male opinion on this situation?

OK so. It's like 1 am and my guy friend down the hall messages me all of a sudden and tells me he just downloaded Chicken Run.
I say oh, that's a good movie. After a pause he says "you can come watch if you're bored". Naturally, I agreed.
I went to his room in pj's wrapped in a blanket and he suggested I go back and get my pillow, so I did.

He started the movie on his laptop, turned off the lights, shut the door, changed into his pyjamas (in front of me), and lay in his bed next to me.
He also offered to share the blanket. Narrow bed, body contact, funny movie, light chatter.
When the movie finished he said he was going to sleep, rolled over on me playfully with the pretext of getting me to go, and said goodnight a few times.

During all of that we were touching lightly, but any movement on my part to touch more closely was pretty much ignored and then sort of withdrawn from.
So my question is, what is this guy's deal? Is he gay? Shy? Confused? Oblivious? Mah??

My best guess is that the guy was just nervous. His thought process was probably something like:

"Did I just touch her leg with mine or the other way around? Oh geez, I'd better move my leg so she doesn't get freaked out." He also probably didn't know exactly what you were wanting/willing to do, so he didn't want to make the first move.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/26/2005, 3:28 pm

my solution is to move to kingston and hook up with robbo.

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 1/26/2005, 3:44 pm

Everybody wins!

Post by **xjsb125** » 1/26/2005, 4:20 pm

Damn!

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 1/26/2005, 4:24 pm

...except for Matt.

Sorry, Matt. Looks like I'm taken.

Post by **xjsb125** » 1/26/2005, 4:26 pm

While you are reading this I'm shooting you on the hub.

starvingeyes · Post by **starvingeyes** » 1/26/2005, 4:40 pm

you guys have all made nice points, but, let's not forget the "chris factor".
that being, guy is thinking with his dick.

there is a chance after all, that he wants a piece but that's where his intentions end. you guys have flirted before, i take it, so maybe he sees potential in you. so he invites you over, and gets snuggly. you get snugglier, and he thinks it might develop. and then he gets worried.

what if you decide after this little snog fest that you want to be his GIRLFRIEND? (AIIIEEEEEE!!!!)

so he pulls away, trying to keep himself from creating problems. but he'll wear down eventualy. so, before you do anything, make sure you guys want the same thing, eh?

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/26/2005, 4:42 pm

but i don't wanna be his girlfriend! i just wanna be bad with him :O

starvingeyes · Post by **starvingeyes** » 1/26/2005, 4:44 pm

well then, you gotta let HIM know that. i mean shit, no guy will turn down non committal dick wetting unless he's gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay. so, that should sort this out real soon.

sandsleeper · Post by **sandsleeper** » 1/26/2005, 6:13 pm

alex, is this about your cat?

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/26/2005, 6:13 pm

sandsleeper · Post by **sandsleeper** » 1/26/2005, 6:13 pm

and aren't you sick? maybe he just didn't want your germypoos!

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/26/2005, 6:14 pm

he's sicker :GASP:

sandsleeper · Post by **sandsleeper** » 1/26/2005, 6:16 pm

well, then no wonder nothing happened! sick people making out = lots of greenish mucus being swapped back and forth and lugie hocking between ear nibbles. ewwww...

dream in japanese · Post by **dream in japanese** » 1/26/2005, 6:18 pm

i have a similar problem. i've gone out with a guy eight times. he comes all the way down from ajax (an hour drive) just to hang out with me. and that's all we ever do is hang out. hanging out is cool and all but this relationship doesn't seem to be progressing...what the fuck is up with him?

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/26/2005, 6:21 pm

i'd say just attack him and make out with him but obviously i'm in a similar spot and am certainly not going to follow my own advice :lol:

kimmy: this has been a recurring event throughout the year. last night was just one of the most blatant incidents.

nelison · Post by **nelison** » 1/26/2005, 6:27 pm

I say just get it over with. Find out if there's a lustful spark there.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 1/26/2005, 6:30 pm

Ugh, I would, but we're close neighbours and friends and it would just make the rest of the semester intolerably awkward.

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