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Posted: **2/9/2006, 5:37 pm**

woah thats so complicated, i had to read it like three times

Posted: **2/9/2006, 8:17 pm**

Girl has some issues. If guy truly likes girl then guy should talk to girl about what happened all the other times and what will be different this time.

Posted: **2/9/2006, 9:07 pm**

Henrietta wrote:Yannic, what makes you think he's gay? I just always assume they're straight unless I know that they are otherwise. Of course, I live in a completely different place. Still...we have quite a large homosexual population here.

someone mentioned that they thought he was, so it got me questioning it.

Posted: **2/9/2006, 9:18 pm**

My boyfriend's coming up to visit this weekend! Tomorrow night will be the first time I've seen him in over a month, so I am very excited :love:

Posted: **2/10/2006, 3:28 am**

Thnx For The Advice Peeps

On the way to the train station this mornin i caught her Staring longingly outta the window, would be nice to have someone to feel :love:

for but this girl is a head case and i'm sure my friends back here and the friends i'm making here can't all be wrong so i'll stay away

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Rusty wrote:Girl has some issues. If guy truly likes girl then guy should talk to girl about what happened all the other times and what will be different this time.

Thnx Dude, tried that after the first burn. to be honest i don't think she deserves me (I aint an egotistical arse i just know i'm cool 8-)

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Posted: **2/10/2006, 7:58 pm**

Sounds like you're making the right choice then. If she's gonna treat you bad then she doesn't deserve you.

Posted: **2/11/2006, 4:02 pm**

nikki4982 wrote:
closeyoureyes wrote:I wouldn't say anything. My best friend is gay, and he told me(with great difficulty) in his own time. You can't force someone to come out to you if they're not ready. If he is gay, he'll tell you, if he wants. If he isn't, he won't tell you.

But asking, in both cases isn't a good idea...

Uhh. Not every gay guy in the world is stuck in the closet. Nor will every gay guy who's out immediately tell everyone he knows "HAY, I'M GAY!!!!1"

Sure, but if he wanted you to know, he would tell you. :roll:

Not a hard concept.

Posted: **2/12/2006, 6:29 am**

Not... really. It's no different than me walking up to someone and saying "HI, I LIKE BOYS"... sure, I could do that, but would I? No.

Posted: **2/12/2006, 6:42 am**

but there's no stigma around a girl liking boys, so you could go around saying that without having to worry about what people think of that. unfortunately, for someone who's gay, it's not that easy.

Posted: **2/12/2006, 6:51 am**

You're missing my point.

Posted: **2/12/2006, 3:40 pm**

I like girls, and having sex with girls

does that fit into this conversation?

Posted: **2/12/2006, 4:47 pm**

Yes but just because someone you meet doesn't tell you they're gay right away, what does it make it any of your business? If you make friends with someone, and they happen to be gay, they'll tell you when they want to. Unless you're the type of person that usually demands information from people upon first meeting them?

Posted: **2/12/2006, 9:41 pm**

Nikki - the automatic assumption is that any given individual is heterosexual. I recognize what you're saying and agree that it shouldn't be that way, but nonetheless, when most people meet someone they automatically assume that person is straight until told otherwise.

Posted: **2/12/2006, 9:43 pm**

Posted: **2/13/2006, 3:23 am**

Duffy's mark on taking advice = 0/10 :lol:

Last night *Girl* sat with me and me mates, and well, erm.. asked me to go up to her flat to ahem... "Talk"

guess i really have no self control when it comes to this girl, normally i don't go ner an ex as theres usually cause behind them being an ex.

so i'm just gonna have to take it easy and not get attached as quick as i usually do. any advice on doing this, i'm a bit of a softy when comes to the female of the species. hopefully this time things will go better as we did talk alot but then alot of the things she said were said the last time.

oh oh, head slowly creeping up me arse

Posted: **2/13/2006, 4:02 am**

you don't need to be gay to enjoy prostate stimulation! just male!

Posted: **2/13/2006, 4:03 am**

100% Straight here mate, well 'til the weekend at least

Posted: **2/13/2006, 4:04 am**

Posted: **2/13/2006, 7:00 am**

happening fish wrote:Nikki - the automatic assumption is that any given individual is heterosexual. I recognize what you're saying and agree that it shouldn't be that way, but nonetheless, when most people meet someone they automatically assume that person is straight until told otherwise.

That's... not what I'm saying, either. At all.

Sinead was inferring that any gay guy in the world will automatically tell you he's gay, otherwise he's stuck in the closet. I'm simply saying that this is NOT TRUE. Just because someone doesn't automatically tell you something doesn't mean it's a secret they're holding on to and will be completely mortified if it's talked about. :freak:

Posted: **2/13/2006, 6:01 pm**

Holy Shit. How many times do you have to read what i've been trying to say.

You can't force someone to come out to you if they're not ready. If he is gay, he'll tell you, if he wants. If he isn't, he won't tell you.

If you make friends with someone, and they happen to be gay, they'll tell you when they want to

I never "inferred" it was some sort of automatic process, and you would see that if you actually read what I typed. All I ever said, and maintained, was if someone was gay, they would tell you, when they WANTED TO, and when they were READY to.

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