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do you think i ruined it by asking her to prom?
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If she said no, then maybe :wtf:
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at first she was like " i probably won't go" then she was like "i might go" then like three days ago she was like "okay i bought my ticket"
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is that a yes?
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it kind of seemed like it at first, but i'm not sure myself...i asked myself teh same questionw hen she said that. if she was lying or if she was telling the truth...
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umm here's a novel idea... why not just ask her again? or at least talk to her about it to clear things up.
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Jim makes a point, ask the little lady if she wants to go or if she is going with you.

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done and done...of course i'm gonna do this over teh phone cuz i'm not man enough to do this in person, lol
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If she bought the ticket you should definitely ask if she bought it to go with you. She might have bought the ticket on her own because she didn't want you buying it for her too though and is still planning on going with you as friends.

She could have done that because she's still in a relationship and wouldn't want you to buy her the prom ticket... but really how much could a prom ticket cost anyway!


And no, asking her to the prom was never a bad idea, two people can go as friends, people do it all the time.
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she didn't expect me to buy it, so far we've only paid the deposit, dont know how much the whole thing is but so far we've paid $20. and yes, we are going as friends...but everytime she sees me she gives me a hug...seh doesn't give any of her other guy friends a hug when she meets them, does that mean anything?
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Nope. Girls hug. It's something you'll get used to. They won't hug everyone though, just those they consider friends or close friends.

Either that or she's a hug-slut or hug-whore.
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no it's probably a friend thing. its just that i never see her hugging guys, one time i was with my friend who also knows her fairly well and she hugged me but not him
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It means she finds you physically attractive enough that she chooses to touch you frequently.
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I'LL TAKE IT! lol, beteter than what i had, i fugured that she was just trying to steal my wallet
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happeningfish wrote:It means she finds you physically attractive enough that she chooses to touch you frequently.


or it's the best friend, but a guy type hug. The hug where they think of you like their brother. Then your doomed. You don't ever want to hear the "But I think you like my little brother/older brother, or just brother"

and he's down for the count.
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yeah that would suck major ass, i feel like im hogging valuable advice time...someone give us a new problem, im bored of my own stupidness, lol.
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Okay I will!

If your significant other is cheating on you, you should:

A) Throw his/her ass to the curb
B) Ask for a threesome
C) Stop cheating on your partner, then they wouldn't have done it to get revenge
D) Become homosexual
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E) Bust out the lighter fluid
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Lando wrote:or it's the best friend, but a guy type hug. The hug where they think of you like their brother. Then your doomed. You don't ever want to hear the "But I think you like my little brother/older brother, or just brother"

and he's down for the count.

Just a note. Before me and Monkey got together, I said that about him. :P So that's not always the kiss of death.
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