Love & Relationships Thread

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/6/2004, 9:45 pm

happeningfish wrote:Um, it can be both you know. That doesn't make you automatically disagree with what Boots said.

It was meant to be light hearted.

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/6/2004, 9:49 pm

Rusty wrote:
Lando wrote:mommy teached me how!

Anyway, back to the topic at hand..

As for Rusty passing her in the halls, a good way to get her attention would be to smack her in the ass when she walks by. Then when she's looking at you put two fingers up like a PEACE sign and put them over your mouth and stick your tongue out.

If there's no chance in hell you'll get her, this is the closest you'll ever get to being physical with her because she will beat the living shit out of you.

Now, if there is a chance you'll get a chance with her, does your school do like secret santas? or deliver gifts for a dollar, like a flower or something around christmas time? Our High School did that for different occasions and that's another way to get her attention.

I think my school does some rose thing for valentines day or something. I suppose I could simple ask her out, but there is the matter of some guy that she likes in her class. Bah I'll figure something out.

The worst thing you could possibly do is not let her know then. If she's interested in someone else, you have to let her know you're interested in her. Valentine's day is too far away to do that also!

The lunch thing is a great idea, or if you're good enough friends, one thing to do is ask her to help you go Christmas shopping. You can play it off as "We're guys and suck at shopping etc..." And if she has shopping to do, she'll almost definitely say yes.

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/6/2004, 9:55 pm

Lando wrote:
Rusty wrote:
Lando wrote:mommy teached me how!

Anyway, back to the topic at hand..

As for Rusty passing her in the halls, a good way to get her attention would be to smack her in the ass when she walks by. Then when she's looking at you put two fingers up like a PEACE sign and put them over your mouth and stick your tongue out.

If there's no chance in hell you'll get her, this is the closest you'll ever get to being physical with her because she will beat the living shit out of you.

Now, if there is a chance you'll get a chance with her, does your school do like secret santas? or deliver gifts for a dollar, like a flower or something around christmas time? Our High School did that for different occasions and that's another way to get her attention.

I think my school does some rose thing for valentines day or something. I suppose I could simple ask her out, but there is the matter of some guy that she likes in her class. Bah I'll figure something out.

The worst thing you could possibly do is not let her know then. If she's interested in someone else, you have to let her know you're interested in her. Valentine's day is too far away to do that also!

The lunch thing is a great idea, or if you're good enough friends, one thing to do is ask her to help you go Christmas shopping. You can play it off as "We're guys and suck at shopping etc..." And if she has shopping to do, she'll almost definitely say yes.

Lunch is good. Telling her is good. Hmmmm, thought must be put into this, I gotta find a way to get her alone. Thanks guys you rock.

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/6/2004, 9:56 pm

Do the christmas shopping thing man! It'll be a good way to get her alone! Even if you ask over a computer!

Rusty · Post by **Rusty** » 12/6/2004, 9:58 pm

If she ever would come on msn long enough for me to talk to her. Everytime I try it's her little brother. Also she lives a tad bit away... But first I need people to shop for otherwise excellent plan.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 12/6/2004, 11:25 pm

Shop for me! :nod:

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/6/2004, 11:27 pm

See! Alex just gave you a reason!

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 12/6/2004, 11:37 pm

What can I say, I love to help

nikki4982 · Post by **nikki4982** » 12/7/2004, 1:39 am

But, that actually is a really good idea (the Christmas shopping one). Course, when ISN'T Lando's advice golden? :thumbs:

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/7/2004, 4:16 am

Lando wrote: a good way to get her attention would be to smack her in the ass when she walks by. Then when she's looking at you put two fingers up like a PEACE sign and put them over your mouth and stick your tongue out.

If there's no chance in hell you'll get her, this is the closest you'll ever get to being physical with her because she will beat the living shit out of you.

nikki4982 · Post by **nikki4982** » 12/7/2004, 4:50 am

Way to roll your eyes at yourself.

starseed_10 · Post by **starseed_10** » 12/7/2004, 5:06 am

Dude, start hitting on her little brother, then she'll get jealous and try to steal you away from him.

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/7/2004, 5:20 am

NO!!! I tried this!!!! It only causes INCEST! She'll steal her bro from you! DO NOT TRY THIS!

nikki4982 · Post by **nikki4982** » 12/7/2004, 5:57 am

Random Name · Post by **Random Name** » 12/7/2004, 5:58 am

mmmm.....'cesty

starseed_10 · Post by **starseed_10** » 12/7/2004, 6:01 am

hey, if you can't keep it in the pants... keep it in the family.

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 12/7/2004, 9:36 am

nikki4982 wrote:8O

Johnny · Post by **Johnny** » 12/7/2004, 10:23 am

Well...

reza · Post by **reza** » 12/7/2004, 4:23 pm

okay, im too lazy to type it all out again so i'm just gonna paste it (please don't get mad at me for bringing the girl, boy formula back....

"guy met girl a year ago

guy didnt start to like girl until a month ago (he's slow)

girl moved to city from texas - has serious bf in texas

guy couldn't take it anymore and asked girl to prom (as friends)

girl initially said that she probably won't go, but if she does she'll go with guy

guy is confused (was he let down or was it the truth)

girl just bought ticket to prom and said that she's going

should guy make a move on the girl or is that wrong?

ps- girl is insanely hot, lol"

what should i do?

Lando · Post by **Lando** » 12/7/2004, 4:39 pm

Why the FUCK is the girl, boy formula back!? :cuss:

If she's still with the BF, don't try making a move right away, just start as friends. But if you're going to the prom together this is a good way for her to start to feel something for you, (don't hit on her constantly like a jerk) and she could start to become interested in you. Just be polite and tell her all the appropriate compliments when you see her all dressed up. :heythere:

If there's ever doubt she'll stay with the long distance relationship, that's her decision. You're not gonna win her by screaming "DUMP HIM! YOU'RE MINE NOW WOMAN!!"

So take it slowly, if she's interested and her other relationship falls through, then you have a chance. But starting as friends and not scaring her off is important in your situation... Because the closer you become will help your situation, she might end the relationship with the other guy because it's Long Distance and she's started to like you, you just have to act accordingly.
You might end up as her shoulder to cry on if it's hard for her to end her other relationship, but then you also don't want to be the "rebound guy" either. They don't last long and once she's over her ex, she'll move on from you too then.

If you want this girl, you're going to have to do things properly, and it could be easy, but it could also be a lot of work. However, if she's worth it, the work and time you may have to endure only being "friends" will seem non-existent once you're with her.

Also... her being insanely hot could mean that Lando's the only one hot enough for her. So unless she likes muppet frogs, stick to miss piggy and play the safe hand.