Posted: 1/14/2003, 2:58 pm
*covers his virgin eyes*
xchrisx wrote:why should society see it from my point of view? i'm right. secondly, it's NOT the business of the government, the guy down the street or some people on the internet to judge persons based on how many people they've slept with. it's none of "societies" business. don't agree? prove me wrong.
i'm tired of talking about condoms. my point is very simple. if you take the proper care when selecting and using a condom, you reduce the danger to yourself to an almost non existent percetile, save for some skin contact diseases. i don't care if some people have sex without condoms etc. etc. if you're careful, you won't have any problems.
your argument is because some people cannot properly use a device, the device is flawed. this is a fallacy.
what? i was pointing out that the chances of getting AIDS are even lower then i originaly posted for most straight men. how does that support your point about my statstics?
actually i'm trying to argue that promiscuity is ok because it is. still waiting on you to show me why it's "wrong".
lying to a potential sex partner about being STD free and sleeping around are two very different things. nice try though. one is a direct violation of your rights and the other is not. one is wrong and one is fine. guess which is which.
actually, i've never said i don't believe people don't use condoms wrong. once again, the fact that somebody may be using it wrong does not change the fact that when used properly, it is highly effective.
it's not the condoms fault that you don't know how to use it. so don't blame the condom if it fails.
and you're using the same logical fallacy here as you did above. don't.
read my post. i said you don't have the right to insult people. then i followed that up with "you can CALL someone on whatever you want..."
i believe i conceded that condoms are not totally effective against contact trasmitted diseases, but that also depends on the affected area.
you still have not shown me in any logical and reasonable way on why sleeping around [ something that has no effect on you ] is wrong. it isn't.
i know a girl who at 17 had been with 17 different guys. she had never gotten pregnant and she has never had an STD.
the fact is, you can spout off your "sex education" indoctrination all you want, but i live in the real world and i see people every day out there having sex, using condoms, and not getting sick or pregnant.
xchrisx wrote:hazy? ok, that's it. i'm going to spell it out for you.
FACT: the only logical way to determine if an action is "right" or "wrong" is by checking to see if the rights of any other person are violated.
FACT: sleeping around does NOT violate the rights of anyone.
FACT: therefore, sleeping around is NOT wrong.
FACT: by calling someone a "slut", you are implying that sleeping around IS wrong.
how many times will i have to repeat myself here? i'm not arguing whether or not ALL people use condoms to perfection, i'm only arguing that it CAN be done, and if it is, you reduce the chance of getting ill or pregnant to almost nothing. are we clear now?
why don't i care if some stupid jackass can't put a condom on properly and thusly infects himself with aids or some other such disease? because it's not my responsibility to babysit him.
tell me, why do you think it's good to encourage a culture that limits the freedoms of people to protect the stupid? sleeping around is only dangerous to those who aren't responsible or mature enough to handle it.
and just as an afterthought, there is nothing logical or rational about using a slur of any sort, for virtually any reason. simply using the term "slut" is illogical and unreasonable.
I have yet to see you prove it "right" that promiscuity is okay.
Alright. Stop ignoring the parts of my post that you can't argue with. I posted, from the study that you yourself quoted, a shit-load of stats that show that carefully picking a condom does not reduce your chance of danger to an almost negligible percentile. 54% chance of transmission of HIV is not a negligible percentile. 10% failure rate with regards to prenancy is not a negligible percentile.
CAUSE YOU CAN FUCKING DIE FROM IT, AND TAKE A LOT OF PEOPLE WITH YOU. LEARN TO READ.
I never said lying. If the girl hasn't bothered to be tested, since she used a condom everytime (you know, those "perfect" condoms with the 54% transmission rates) and then sleeps with me, still using a great, "ultra-safe" condom, then I get infected with something because I didn't know about her past, then something is wrong.
I am not, and I did not.
It is not my fault if the condom is defective, which it is, up to 54% of the time. And yes, I'm hoping if I say that enough you'll actually fucking read it.
Actually, I do. It's called the First Amendment. I checked, and I didn't see the amendment where I have the right to not be insulted. If you could please point out which one that is, I'd be grateful.
I pay taxes. Do you know what taxes help fund? Hospitals, free clinics, Medicare/Medicaid, social security, welfare, and a plethora of other social programs. Many of those programs are aimed at stopping the spread of disease. Others are aimed at treating those who do have the disease, and can't afford the treatment on their own. Still others are aimed at providing for people who don't have the money to raise their kids. So if there's a lot of people sleeping around, then there will be more people drawing money to clean up the aftermath. Money that I have to pay. It does affect me. I am part of society, so problems within society affect me.
And if a friend, or family member is infected because someone was stupid, then I am affected.
No. "Right" and "wrong" are inherently moral concepts. There isn't always the kind of logic behind the concepts as you seem to think.therefore, the word slut is meaningless, and serves only to embarass the user.
For example, a nihilst believes that all of creation is spiraling down to oblivion, and hastening that descent is the role of that individual in their life. So spreading disease and violating the rights of others would actually be "right" to them. It's a question of perspective.
Second, sleeping around can violate the rights of people, particularly in real life where even the most carefully laid preparations can fail.
So your "logic" falls apart. Oops for you.
FIFTY-FOUR PERCENT FAILURE RATE TO CONTAIN THE HIV VIRUS IS NOT PERFECTION.
Because I should have the freedom to not have my taxes spike so that others can pay for the kids they couldn't afford to have, or the treatment for disease that they can' pay. I have the right to not worry about someone close to me getting fucked over because someone else likes to think with their crotch. Are my freedoms not as important?
Because human being and human interactions are built on the highest levels of logic. Oh, wait, no, emotion plays a role. That's right, looks like we both forgot for a minute there!
Rights don't exist, save in a legal sense, unless you are professing to believe in some higher power, in which case we're generally back to promiscuity being wrong
No, that's not the shittest condom. The exact quote from your own study was, ""In vitro trials have reported HIV leakage in 0-100% of the condoms tested, with all but one brand between 0.0% and 54%." There was ONE brand which did not have the 54% leakage rate.
In F1 racing, all drivers know of the dangers. In real life, people lie, people "blur the truth," people forget, or make incorrect assumptions. In short, they mess up. They don't know all the risks, or assume that condoms are perfect. They are not.
xchrisx wrote:o really? the axiom of self ownership states that each person is the owner of their own body and mind. the basic non agression principle, which is human instinct, shows that each person has the right from birth to have this ownership remain unchallenged and intact.
there is no basis in nature for any other "rights" to be granted. legal "rights" don't exist.
read some locke, nozick or rand text books and get back to me on this one. even some basic aristotle or mill would be nice.
xchrisx wrote:you're quoting a particular part of a study which stated it's overall findings to be that condoms are 86% effective against AIDS transmission. at another point in the study, it shows that the instance of aids transfer in the 12 cohort samples of "always" users was 0.9% with a 95% confidence interval.
xchrisx wrote:whether you are aware of the danger involved in a specific activity does not change the fact that there is nothing inherently wrong about dangerous activities, which was your earlier assertion.
xchrisx wrote:
your belief that this is a "social problem" is based on the flawed premise of "social problems". i don't believe that anything that does not directly effect me is my problem. to do otherwise would be irrational.
This one comes down to whether or not you feel that being human entails certain inalienable rights, and is a whole other thread in and of itself. So, in the interests of not letting this go on an even bigger tangent, I'll simply disagree with the idea, though if you do want to start another thread, I'll be glad to discuss it there.
So overall, there is an 86% success rate vs. the transmission of HIV when using condoms. A few points:
1. That's still a 14% chance, overall, that the condom will not prevent transmission. Still a very noticeable percentile.
Due to the nature of promiscuity, and the fact that neither people nor condoms are perfect, people are not always aware of the danger when chosing to have sex with someone, so they are not given the chance to judge the situation accurately.
However, that does not change the fact that there are certain dangers that go hand in hand with sexual activity, nor does it change the fact that as the number of partners you have increases, so do the chances of problems.
xchrisx wrote:
you disagree with the concept of inalieable rights? then i suppose you agree with slavery, forced sterilization and hitler, at least on a moral level, if not an ethical one.
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