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Posted: 12/20/2005, 12:11 am
by closeyoureyes
OK.
I have this crush...
on this guy I work with...
he's one of the store managers.
25, meh.
he = thinks i'm cute. in a little sister way.
and.
he;'s leaving in a month.
i feel so sad.
i have legitimate feelings of like for this person,
its not lust.
Posted: 12/20/2005, 8:46 am
by dream in japanese
Rusty wrote:Then keep saying that to yourself! Next time you see him, tell him that you want more. Don't even kiss him, if he tries stop yourself, remember what you want, and move. Tell him that you want more, and don't want to do that anymore. If you can't be trusted alone, bring a friend, go to public places, just control yourself.
that's my plan..but we're having a slumber party tonight..just me and him...it's hard to tell him to sleep on the couch..i get lonely
Posted: 12/20/2005, 11:53 am
by Henrietta
I pretended my date was someone else all night last night
Kind of mean
I'm not left winged!
Posted: 12/20/2005, 12:09 pm
by closeyoureyes
??
Posted: 12/20/2005, 4:01 pm
by Axtech
Posted: 12/20/2005, 7:53 pm
by Rusty
dream in japanese wrote:Rusty wrote:Then keep saying that to yourself! Next time you see him, tell him that you want more. Don't even kiss him, if he tries stop yourself, remember what you want, and move. Tell him that you want more, and don't want to do that anymore. If you can't be trusted alone, bring a friend, go to public places, just control yourself.
that's my plan..but we're having a slumber party tonight..just me and him...it's hard to tell him to sleep on the couch..i get lonely
Bring a stuffed animal...or tell him to sleep on the floor, or you sleep on the floor. Put something between you and him in the bed. Or control yourself.
Posted: 12/20/2005, 9:53 pm
by saman
aww it's not real? ah well. real or not, it was funny to read
Posted: 12/20/2005, 10:12 pm
by its4am_isanybodyhome
neoncrossing wrote:wow...so i think everyone said it was okay for me, a 24 yr old to date an almost 18 yr old girl.....that is actually quite relieving....didnt think that would be the response...thanks guys
and what about a 17-year-old dating a 29-year-old? eh?? enh???
but i think the feelings need to be mutual first.
Posted: 12/20/2005, 10:56 pm
by neoncrossing
i think they are mutual
Posted: 12/20/2005, 11:00 pm
by Hope
i.. dont think she was talking about you.
Posted: 12/21/2005, 3:20 am
by thirdhour
fucking fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. also, fuckshit.
Posted: 12/21/2005, 6:13 am
by Lando
I don't have a problem with the age difference thing, but honestly, you're RARELY going to see a girl who's almost 30 going for an 17-18 year old boy. I personally feel that these guys who are hitting on these girls or want a "serious relationship" with girls who are like 10 years younger than them are really pathetic. Not that it's wrong in any sense, just that they, themselves are pathetic for not being able to connect with someone who's on more of a similar level in terms of what life they've lived and what they've had the chance to experience. Being 30 and dating a girl who's just out of high school (or is still attending) seems like it's just not fair to the girl. I totally support her decision to enter such a relationship, because she's old enough to express herself and make the decision of who she wants to be with, but she's experienced so much less of what's out there and of what's to come while being young. Being with someone who's already been through that phase in their life could take away a lot of what the girl should experience in her life. What I mean is that someone who's 30ish tends to be in a much more mature mindset in that they want a serious relationship. At 18, people should have fun, go to school, work, do whatever the hell they want, but there's going to be time later to devote yourself to a deep relationship. They should experience their youth first and once they're successful or at a point in their lives where they're ready to be completely grown up, then they should consider dating a 50 year old geezer. Live life while we have it! I say. We only live once after all... Well at least that's what some people believe.
(Note: I edited my post to say 50 year old geezer. Originally it said 50 year old man.)
Posted: 12/21/2005, 10:44 am
by Henrietta
Yeah...I agree.
Posted: 12/21/2005, 3:04 pm
by closeyoureyes
I agree with you too. I think if its the younger girl who persues, that's a little different. But if its the older guy, I always think, what is wrong with him that he can't find people his own age.
Its hard to date someone older than you because at the basis of everything, you're in different stages of your life. It's hard to bridge that.
Posted: 12/21/2005, 6:09 pm
by Rusty
thirdhour wrote:fucking fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. also, fuckshit.
What's wrong?
Posted: 12/21/2005, 7:59 pm
by thirdhour
Boys.
Posted: 12/21/2005, 8:07 pm
by Rusty
What about them?
Posted: 12/21/2005, 8:29 pm
by thirdhour
They do things WRONG and it FUCKS me over.
Posted: 12/21/2005, 8:43 pm
by Johnny
All boys are like that?
Posted: 12/21/2005, 8:44 pm
by pit_girl1
Chanandler Bong wrote:All boys are like that?
No.