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Then don't have sex if you can't handle what could happen because of it ...
If you go into sex willingly, knowing there's a chance the condom could break or the pill might not work ... then be prepared for that, otherwise don't have sex. Simple. As a responsible adult you KNOW before you have sex that something could happen and you could get pregnant. If you're a responsible adult then that should be an obvious decision anyway. Why should a baby die because you can't deal with it?
If you go into sex willingly, knowing there's a chance the condom could break or the pill might not work ... then be prepared for that, otherwise don't have sex. Simple. As a responsible adult you KNOW before you have sex that something could happen and you could get pregnant. If you're a responsible adult then that should be an obvious decision anyway. Why should a baby die because you can't deal with it?
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I'm sorry but I have nothing to say to that without being rude.
Any highschool parenting class will teach you differently. If you've ever been witness to an ultra sound, and seeing that tiny life with arms and legs that's moving and breathing and kicking .. then deny that's a living being? That's just stupid. I'm sorry. It it clearly a baby.
Even looking at that picture that was posted earlier. You can clearly see arms and legs and a tiny baby. I really have nothing to say to people that can't see that, it just boggles my mind completely.
Any highschool parenting class will teach you differently. If you've ever been witness to an ultra sound, and seeing that tiny life with arms and legs that's moving and breathing and kicking .. then deny that's a living being? That's just stupid. I'm sorry. It it clearly a baby.

Even looking at that picture that was posted earlier. You can clearly see arms and legs and a tiny baby. I really have nothing to say to people that can't see that, it just boggles my mind completely.
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Soozy wrote:What about if someone has an abortion because they find out that the baby has some kind of disease or problem that will mean it's going to die not long after it's born and it will spend its life in pain?
Thats euthanasia then (mery killing) and that's illegal. It's a huge controversey though same as abortion. In my opinion abortion is murder, but it isn't my choice to make, all I know is that if I had a girlfriend and she became pregnant I would support her with whatever decision she made, of course I would talk with her about it, but in the end it is up to the woman to decide.
Queens Of The Stone Age-Someone's In The Wolf
Once you're lost in twillights's blue
You don't find your way, the way finds you...
Tempt the fates, beware the smile
It hides all the teeth, my dear,
What's behind them...
So glad you could stay
Forever
He steps between the trees, a crooked man
There's blood on the blade
Don't take his hand
You warm by the firelight, in twilight's blue
Shadows creep & dance the walls
He's creeping too..
So glad you could stay
Forever

It's not as uncommon as you'd think to have a termination because of the baby having serious health problems. I personally know two people who have done this and as women have babies later in life it's going to become more common. Here the tests for these problems are normally done at 17 weeks, not 20 as you said Joey and I'm pretty sure a friend of mine's wife had some new kind of test at 12 weeks. But I'm not sure where the 20 weeks thing comes into it anyway.
While I respect everyone's right to their own opinions on these matters, for me there's such a large continuum between these kinds of terminations (which I agree with) and terminations as a form of birth control by irresponsible teenagers (which I disagree with) through all kinds of areas in the middle and I'm not sure quite where the line falls for me.
While I respect everyone's right to their own opinions on these matters, for me there's such a large continuum between these kinds of terminations (which I agree with) and terminations as a form of birth control by irresponsible teenagers (which I disagree with) through all kinds of areas in the middle and I'm not sure quite where the line falls for me.
Open your eyes to nights and days, you close them up and float away
and somehow inbetween you've got to master lying to yourself
you back the cause, get out of school, you get a job, the job gets you
and somehow every day you end up serving somebody else
now if that ain't panic that you're feeling, then you damn well better start
you can drive it into that head of yours with the hammer in your heart.
And it's alriiiiiiiight now, take the world and make it yours again.
and somehow inbetween you've got to master lying to yourself
you back the cause, get out of school, you get a job, the job gets you
and somehow every day you end up serving somebody else
now if that ain't panic that you're feeling, then you damn well better start
you can drive it into that head of yours with the hammer in your heart.
And it's alriiiiiiiight now, take the world and make it yours again.
The reason I'm saying 20 weeks is because here that's when the first ultrasounds are done. 4 of my friends had babies this year, the one being due in November and that was the same for all 4 of them. Even at 17 weeks there's most certainly a tiny life developing. Either way it's still wrong in my eyes. Under any circumstances.
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Well there's a first time for everything right?
Children and animals are my only passions in this life. If I ever found out that I couldn't have children, that would be devastating. Then to think of people who have abortions and just destory so many tiny lives because the baby might not be "wanted." Breaks my heart.

Children and animals are my only passions in this life. If I ever found out that I couldn't have children, that would be devastating. Then to think of people who have abortions and just destory so many tiny lives because the baby might not be "wanted." Breaks my heart.

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I'm not sure exactly how a morning after pill works. If it kills the sperm or the egg, I think that is fine, because the egg isn't fertilized. I wouldn't personally do it, but it's not really murder, it's just another cell in your body. But if the sperm has fertilized the egg already then that is just an early abortion.
Re: Survey
Killing:In self defense right, other: wrong
Stealing[/color]:Wrong
Discrimination:Wrong
Abortion: don't give a shit either way
Gays/Lesbians/Bi-sexuals: don't give a shit either way
War: maybe
Sharing: Right
Government Help: Right
Rich Helping The Poor: Right
Poor Helping The Rich: how?
Taxes: Good
Right to Death: Right, same goes for death penalty
Government Moderation: Right
Gun Laws: maybe
Violence to Achieve Goals: if words fail
Words to Achieve Goals: Right
Polygamy: nope
Public Healthcare: Good
Public Schools: Good
Stemcell use: good
Cloning Entire Humans: Wrong
Cloning parts: Good
Designer Babies: Wrong
Alcohol Use: Good, abusers lack self discipline
Marijuana Use: studies show it's getting more potient, no
Hard Drug Use: Wrong, user lack self discipline
Eating Meat: hell yeah!
Eating Humanely Raised Animals: hell yeah!
Eating Animal By-products: huh? you mean like cheese? hell yeah!
Stealing[/color]:Wrong
Discrimination:Wrong
Abortion: don't give a shit either way
Gays/Lesbians/Bi-sexuals: don't give a shit either way
War: maybe
Sharing: Right
Government Help: Right
Rich Helping The Poor: Right
Poor Helping The Rich: how?
Taxes: Good
Right to Death: Right, same goes for death penalty
Government Moderation: Right
Gun Laws: maybe
Violence to Achieve Goals: if words fail
Words to Achieve Goals: Right
Polygamy: nope
Public Healthcare: Good
Public Schools: Good
Stemcell use: good
Cloning Entire Humans: Wrong
Cloning parts: Good
Designer Babies: Wrong
Alcohol Use: Good, abusers lack self discipline
Marijuana Use: studies show it's getting more potient, no
Hard Drug Use: Wrong, user lack self discipline
Eating Meat: hell yeah!
Eating Humanely Raised Animals: hell yeah!
Eating Animal By-products: huh? you mean like cheese? hell yeah!
Whenever death may surprise us,
let it be welcome
if our battle cry has reached even one receptive ear
and another hand reaches out to take up our arms.
Nobody's gonna miss me, no tears will fall, no ones gonna weap, when i hit that road.
my boots are broken my brain is sore, fer keepin' up with thier little world, i got a heavy load.
gonna leave 'em all just like before, i'm big city bound, your always 17 in your hometown
let it be welcome
if our battle cry has reached even one receptive ear
and another hand reaches out to take up our arms.
Nobody's gonna miss me, no tears will fall, no ones gonna weap, when i hit that road.
my boots are broken my brain is sore, fer keepin' up with thier little world, i got a heavy load.
gonna leave 'em all just like before, i'm big city bound, your always 17 in your hometown
Cass wrote:I am just starting embryology in anatomy, and it is ABSOLUTELY amazing to see those cells splitting. Very early on, while it is still an embryo, cells are being defined as brain stems, appendages, organs. How could you not think that is life?
your right it is life, but not human life. You should already have learned that when we develop we actually go through evolutionary changes at a fast rate. When we first start we are the same as an ape baby. And we are not concious, or in any way human.
Of course once we start to develop into human beings i'm much more wary to condemn pro-lifers. I'm not for or against abortion, but if it's still cellular i see no problems. Unless your a vegitarian, pacifist i don't see why you should either. And after all you support the killing of people in Iraq.
"How can we justify spending so much on destruction and so little on life?" Matthew Good
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
your right it is life, but not human life. You should already have learned that when we develop we actually go through evolutionary changes at a fast rate.
I'm never going to learn this because I go to a private, LDS school. We don't believe in abortion and we believe that life starts the minute the sperm hits the egg, sorry.
LDS school? What the hell is that? and why arn't they teaching gr. 12 biology?
"How can we justify spending so much on destruction and so little on life?" Matthew Good
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month
"The white dove is gone, the one world has come down hard, so why not share the pain of our problems, when all around are wrong ways, when all around is hurt, i'll roll up in an odd shape and wait, untill the tide has turned.....with anger, i'm dead weight, i'm anchored"- IME, God Rocket (Into the Heart of Las Vegas) ^ Some say this song is about a terrorists thoughts before 911
"Pray for the sheep" Matt Good
"But it's alright, take the world and make it yours again" Matt Good
I felt it in the wind, and i saw it in the sky, i thought it was the end, i thought it was the 4th of July.
"Hold on, hold on children, your mother and father are leaving, hold on, hold on children your best freind's parents are leaving, leaving,.......*AHHH*! " - Death From Above - Black History Month