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Postby Neil » 1/27/2010, 8:50 am

Girls need to just say what they're thinking and get it over with; rather than waiting several weeks and then blowing the hell up outta nowhere.

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Postby saman » 4/28/2011, 7:50 pm

oh hi all. so i think i'm in a relationship. maybe :think:
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Postby xjsb125 » 4/28/2011, 11:09 pm

I told you I was married. Heather isn't willing to share.
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Postby saman » 4/29/2011, 7:32 am

that's what you think. she doesn't need you aaallll the time. 8-)
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Postby saman » 7/30/2011, 11:33 am

oh hi all. so i think i might be engaged/half-married. craziness
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Postby neoncrossing » 7/30/2011, 11:40 am

Ok everyone. I could use some input from anyone willing to give me their 2 cents:

Let's say your girlfriend of over 5 and a half years one day says "me and my girlfriends are taking of to Vegas in a couple weeks for 4 days". And this is shortly after discussing the idea of one day going there together in the next year or so.

What would your reaction be as the boyfriend?
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Postby xjsb125 » 7/30/2011, 1:32 pm

Tell her she's not going anywhere until those damn dishes get cleaned?

Also: The Hangover.

Just ask if she still wants to go to Vegas with you sometime in the next year like you had been talking about. If so, then tell her to have a fun trip, and scout out some cool places for you guys to go to when you get the chance. No need in getting pissy about it. Yeah it sucks, but let her go have some fun. She'll know you trust her and love her enough to go have some fun with her girls. In the mean time, save a roll of singles and hit the strip club.
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Postby neoncrossing » 7/30/2011, 2:36 pm

haha...thanks matt

i like the strip club idea....except i already told her i wasnt happy about the trip...so i kinda screwed up already...but its not that i dont want her to go and I have no right to tell her not to, its just that i get this uncomfortable feeling in my gut....the hangover says it all...i trust her, i dont trust vegas
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Postby xjsb125 » 7/30/2011, 4:25 pm

She'll be fine. Tell her you're bummed you aren't going with her this time, but to enjoy herself anyways and tell you all about it when she comes back. If she screws up remember there's always

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Postby Kicker774 » 8/1/2011, 8:56 am

If all else fails Samans only *half* married. So there's still hope for you.
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Postby saman » 11/2/2011, 11:03 pm

long distance relationships suck.
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Postby Matt. » 11/3/2011, 6:19 am

saman wrote:long distance relationships suck.

Yeah, I feel you on that one..
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Postby Kicker774 » 11/9/2011, 11:41 am

Then when you are on the same side of the planet together the s/o misses her family back home and you feel bad for it.
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Postby saman » 1/23/2012, 9:53 am

hah yeah, my hubbs is going through that right now, poor guy. also, i'm married for real now and living in pakistan till my husband's immigration process is completed. living here is an adjustment but i'm happy anyway :)
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Postby AnnieDreams » 2/9/2012, 10:33 am

2 years ago, AnnieDreams wrote:TEE HEE HEE BOY

What an asshole.
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Postby Neil » 2/9/2012, 12:04 pm

saman wrote:hah yeah, my hubbs is going through that right now, poor guy. also, i'm married for real now and living in pakistan till my husband's immigration process is completed. living here is an adjustment but i'm happy anyway :)


Congrats! On the happy part. I wouldn't wanna live overseas. Wait.. maybe Amsterdam.
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Postby AnnieDreams » 2/12/2012, 7:58 pm

Do I want to continue avoiding my ex $15 much?
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Re: Love & Relationships Thread

Postby saman » 2/13/2014, 10:46 am

i wouldn't trade this for anything, but still gotta say, being pregnant is hard. men, make sure you treat your baby mamas well
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Re: Love & Relationships Thread

Postby xjsb125 » 2/13/2014, 3:51 pm

WTF?! Remember that one time you were pregnant and never told anyone??? Congratulations! When did you find out and not tell us?
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Re: Love & Relationships Thread

Postby myownsatellite » 2/13/2014, 5:07 pm

Dude seriously, were you planning on keeping us in the dark forever?! Congratulations! :clap:
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