This guy kept after me for about 3 months to go out on a date with him, personality wise he was the greatest person and made me laugh, looks wise, there was just NO connection and no attraction whatsoever, so finally I let the personality win and I agreed to go out with him .. we went out for about 9 months .. and it just didn't work .. we didn't have that physical connection, or at least I didn't. I want to be able to look at the person and just melt, and feel butterflies in my stomach when they smile at me .. so looks aren't the most important thing, but they DO matter, anyone who says they don't matter at all, is lying
There just has to be that spark physically .. you have to connect on both levels
