That or you can wait until he loses interest.
xjsb125 wrote:High school girls really aren't worth the effort of dating steady. Sorry. The level of immaturity of male and female at that age rarely leads to a constructive, fulfilling relationship. There are exceptions to the rule, but it's rare.
Not by adult standards, certainly, but I've known high schoolers to be quite happy in their high school relationships. As long as they're at the same level of maturity and not prone to crazy melodrama. Teenage relationships are obviously not going to be mature adult relationships, but that doesn't mean they're inherently bad or not worth the trouble. At the very least it's life experience that socializes youngun's with the knowledge of navigating relationships and learning how to deal with the issues therein. At the most, that high-school chick could be the girl you marry and spend the rest of your life with!
What? It happens!
Of course, it would necessarily depend on the people you choose to date. There are definitely catty teenage girls (and douche-bag boys) that aren't worth anyone's effort until (or unless) they grow up. But choosing not to date idiots and crazy-people is a rule that pretty much applies throughout all of life.
Plus, casual dating is also something that involves maturity in order to be executed properly. You think Sally-middle-school won't be broken-hearted when the boy she likes doesn't wanna get involved with her and keeps dating other girls? And in later years when sex comes into the game things will inevitably get complicated and drama-filled (especially if you're trying to sleep with people you're not putting effort into dating). Being a teenager in general takes effort and is difficult and often comes with lots of drama. Kids are learning to be adults, and learning to deal with romance is part of that.[/i]