advice please

[mosaik]

last night i broke up with my girlfriend. It wasn't working out.

I feel bad though because i feel like i led her on for three months and sort of wasted her time. i should have known that it was never going to go anywhere and i should have told her. she's pretty upset, and i can't help but thinking that it isn't fair.

i really want to do something to help her hurt less but i don't know what to do. i feel like such a bastard.

anybody got any ideas how i can make her feel better without promising to take her back?

[starvingeyes]

[Susan]

[starvingeyes]

[Susan]

[mosaik]

[starvingeyes]

[starvingeyes]

[Susan]

[mosaik]

why do i bother?

[Susan]

Interjection.

The best place to start would probably be with a sincere apology. Accentuate what you did wrong, what she did right, and apologize.

[mosaik]

i apologized last night. i think that helped a little

i hope we can still be friends. it's not her fault i wans't attracted to her. it was the timing, and the shoes that she had to fill were ten sizes too big for any mortal woman.

i'm going to call her tommorow to pay her for some concert tickets she bought. maybe i can talk to her about it more then.

[Susan]

Godspeed fair mortal.

[emily]

[mosaik]

[Lando]

[Neil]

Ya know......I basically did the same thing as you bro it finally took another girl to convince her that it was totally over........and lord behold, several days later I found out my ex was bisexual and she was sleeping w/ a girl behind my back.

She could've told me and I would've been supportive aaaaanyways.....good luck with that though. It doesn't sound like theres a whole lot you can do to make things better other than continue to be civil and a friend if thats ok in your eyes.