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Postby One-Eye » 3/16/2003, 12:15 am

If one has a crush on an older person that he or she sees every day, but the object of their affection is unaware of their existence, what should one do?

Should one risk embarrassment, self-hatred, and so forth by saying or doing something, or should he or she just continue to be a painfully shy wallflower? If one is to act on his or her affections, how would you recommend he or she do so?
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Postby sandsleeper » 3/16/2003, 12:18 am

just hide it. then you can't get hurt. that's what i've learned and that's become my philosophy. by the way, it's gotten me nowhere.
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Postby One-Eye » 3/16/2003, 12:19 am

That's what I... I mean, this person... was thinking.
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Postby Joey » 3/16/2003, 12:28 am

Take a risk .. you'll never get anywhere if you don't just jump in there sometimes ..
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Postby One-Eye » 3/16/2003, 12:32 am

Yes, but you are talking to someone completely inept in communicating with the male species. I went to an all-girls school, and I have no idea of how to talk to guys - about ANYTHING, let alone... risky... things, :oops: :oops:
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Postby committed » 3/16/2003, 12:36 am

yeah

tell her to pick out a cd and when she's going through your collection, stand really close behind her

then when she stands up and turns around and discovers that you are right there, you just kiss her
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Postby One-Eye » 3/16/2003, 12:36 am

:wtf:
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Postby Joey » 3/16/2003, 12:37 am

I tend to get along better with guys than I do with girls .. but on a friendship level .. when it comes to dating I'm chicken shit too .. there's this hot guy at work who actually came up to me and made the effort of introducing himself to me but I'm too scared to talk to him :lol:
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Postby areusad831 » 3/16/2003, 12:38 am

donner wrote:yeah

tell her to pick out a cd and when she's going through your collection, stand really close behind her

then when she stands up and turns around and discovers that you are right there, you just kiss her


aerin is a girl but smooth move jeff
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Postby sandsleeper » 3/16/2003, 12:41 am

Joey wrote:I tend to get along better with guys than I do with girls .. but on a friendship level .. when it comes to dating I'm chicken shit too .. there's this hot guy at work who actually came up to me and made the effort of introducing himself to me but I'm too scared to talk to him :lol:


yeah i had that happen to me once too. some hot guy came up and introduced himself when i was on this trip and pennsylvania but i'm a big nerdbag so i just kinda smiled dumbly and was unable to make any conversation. :neutral:
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Postby committed » 3/16/2003, 12:42 am

oh

what was i talking about

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Postby Joey » 3/16/2003, 12:43 am

a little girl on girl action I believe :lol:
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Postby areusad831 » 3/16/2003, 12:44 am

where? :mrgreen:
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Postby One-Eye » 3/16/2003, 12:44 am

:lol:

To clarify: I am a girl. Object of my affection is a guy.

Continue...
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Postby committed » 3/16/2003, 12:45 am

i'm not a girl
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Postby areusad831 » 3/16/2003, 12:48 am

jeff has 6000 posts and is a male!
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Postby committed » 3/16/2003, 12:49 am

woo

i'm in fourth place
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Postby Bandalero » 3/16/2003, 12:52 am

GetTheFeelingNow wrote:Yes, but you are talking to someone completely inept in communicating with the male species. I went to an all-girls school, and I have no idea of how to talk to guys - about ANYTHING, let alone... risky... things, :oops: :oops:


males...they're easy to talk to. what you/your friend can do is send a person to tell them hey...this chick...she wants you. then after about a day or two of that...you personally walk up and tell them how you feel. it tends to slowly make you feel comfortable about him knowing that you want to secretly rip his clothes off and rape him.
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Postby One-Eye » 3/16/2003, 12:57 am

:lol:

I should probably find out if he has a girlfriend first, I suppose...
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Postby committed » 3/16/2003, 12:58 am

threesome

guys like those i hear
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