I wouldn't necessarily ask a guy out. However, i'm really direct. Meaning that if Ilike you, you'll know, so long as we're friends. And I probably will eventually tell you anyway if you haven't figured it out. The thing with "asking out" is mostly that I dont like dates. They're good for special occaisons, but i'm more than happy to like, sit on the beach all afternoon with a boy or lie on the couch in jammies watching movies all night. I'm too laid back for "courting".
To the guys that have told me they dislike being asked out, i think its more of a "well i'm the man" type thing, with I guess a more traditional(misogynic

) type of dude.