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joe_canadian · Post by **joe_canadian** » 6/19/2003, 11:39 am

We'd also like to know.

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 6/19/2003, 11:41 am

lora · Post by **lora** » 6/19/2003, 11:43 am

heh, i used to think about this a lot.

i think they go hand in hand. you can get the physical attraction thing going on, and inquire about their mind, and get nothing stimulating.

but then, you can get the emotional/intelligence/whatever thing going on, and not seem to be attracted to the guy in a physical way. however, chances are, it will develop if you're into his personality. yeah.

anyway, brains tend to be more important. :mrgreen:

Susan · Post by **Susan** » 6/19/2003, 11:43 am

Personality does it for me.

A nice smile doesn't hurt, though. :mrgreen:

superrgirll · Post by **superrgirll** » 6/19/2003, 11:45 am

personality. :nod:

dream in japanese · Post by **dream in japanese** » 6/19/2003, 11:49 am

defiantly personality but i have to be attracted to the guy as well

superrgirll · Post by **superrgirll** » 6/19/2003, 11:51 am

carnival_7 wrote:defiantly personality but i have to attracted to the guy as well

i agree.

thirdhour · Post by **thirdhour** » 6/19/2003, 12:02 pm

if a guy has a great personality i will find him hot. its that simple. hotness is really a variable. theres no set way to how i want a guy to look.

if he's a really cool guy, chances are i'll find him attractive. actually, the biggest thing: how he hugs :mgreen:

xoNoDoubt69 · Post by **xoNoDoubt69** » 6/19/2003, 12:35 pm

a great personality is what gets me :nod:

Clumsy7Thief · Post by **Clumsy7Thief** » 6/19/2003, 12:40 pm

Personality is always important to me. If he's hot but he's a jerk...I dont like him anymore. Looks are great, but personality has to be there to. :nod:

finding emo · Post by **finding emo** » 6/19/2003, 12:43 pm

It's usually looks that first draw you to a person, but it's the personality that makes you stay with that person.

I went out with this one guy, who was this really gorgeous blond haired blue eyed man who had absolutely no personality. I broke up with him in like four days even though my friends were like "He's so :drool:

"

So I guess, I would admit that looks are somewhat important to me, but personality is more important.

Galaxia · Post by **Galaxia** » 6/19/2003, 12:56 pm

My last boyfriend was very very skinny, like a crackhead or something. But, he had ice blue eyes, a great smile and a cute personality. That made him hot in my opinion.

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 6/19/2003, 12:58 pm

So, who said arms, but won't speak up?

mosaik · Post by **mosaik** » 6/19/2003, 2:02 pm

Axtech · Post by **Axtech** » 6/19/2003, 2:15 pm

Way to be a girl. :roll:

Clumsy7Thief · Post by **Clumsy7Thief** » 6/19/2003, 2:19 pm

happening fish · Post by **happening fish** » 6/19/2003, 2:48 pm

personality, hands down. i find it really hard to be attracted to someone i don't know or don't really find to be an interesting person, even if i would otherwise consider him attractive. also, maybe this is the right place to say this, but i really don't get this defined image of "hot" boys. really, i don't. it seems to me that what i find attractive is NOTHING like what the general consensus seems to be. ie, male models, they don't do a damn thing for me. but anyway, if i like being around you, you will probably make it into my hot book :lol:

Susan · Post by **Susan** » 6/19/2003, 3:12 pm

I've found that if you love a guy's personality first, the good looks and everything come around after.

lora · Post by **lora** » 6/19/2003, 3:13 pm

me too.

Sufjan Stevens · Post by **Sufjan Stevens** » 6/19/2003, 4:00 pm

Right. Because women go out hunting for dogs like me and say, "I should go talk to him, because no matter how ugly he is, he has to have a great personality that makes him a beautiful person." And I am Jesus.

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